If it takes you more then 3 seconds to read that chart then you need to work on your game!
http://www.portalmix.com/eyetest.htm
http://www.portalmix.com/eyetest.htm
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
An eye exam for Sosuave members
- Thread starter DJDamage
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Ace of Flames
Master Don Juan
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Haha. Guess I'm ok then.
The Bartender
Senior Don Juan
Does the size of your monitor matter?...Wow, I bet geeks ask that question on their forum all the time.
fwiw - Mines a Wide 19"
fwiw - Mines a Wide 19"
Ace of Flames
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Just do like it says and back away. Or, you can squint your eyes.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
The size doesn't matter, you just have to have a good looking monitor; it's the only thing that matters.The Bartender said:
Le Parisien
Master Don Juan
Come on guys, if you are smart enough, it's pretty easy to "read" it.
Just "read" the empty spaces, basically imagine the empty spaces are full and the black blocks are "empty".
By now you should have it.
Just "read" the empty spaces, basically imagine the empty spaces are full and the black blocks are "empty".
By now you should have it.
Ace of Flames
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Hahahaha!
Irony knows no bounds.
Irony knows no bounds.
Bonhomme
Master Don Juan
ha ha
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
I blur my eyes a bit. Read it quickly 
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.