If it takes you more then 3 seconds to read that chart then you need to work on your game!
http://www.portalmix.com/eyetest.htm
http://www.portalmix.com/eyetest.htm
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
An eye exam for Sosuave members
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Ace of Flames
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Haha. Guess I'm ok then.
The Bartender
Senior Don Juan
Does the size of your monitor matter?...Wow, I bet geeks ask that question on their forum all the time.
fwiw - Mines a Wide 19"
fwiw - Mines a Wide 19"
Ace of Flames
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Just do like it says and back away. Or, you can squint your eyes.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
The size doesn't matter, you just have to have a good looking monitor; it's the only thing that matters.The Bartender said:
Le Parisien
Master Don Juan
Come on guys, if you are smart enough, it's pretty easy to "read" it.
Just "read" the empty spaces, basically imagine the empty spaces are full and the black blocks are "empty".
By now you should have it.
Just "read" the empty spaces, basically imagine the empty spaces are full and the black blocks are "empty".
By now you should have it.
Ace of Flames
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Hahahaha!
Irony knows no bounds.
Irony knows no bounds.
Bonhomme
Master Don Juan
ha ha
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
I blur my eyes a bit. Read it quickly 
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.