An evaluation from my gf

[Rash]

yesterday I heard the "we need to talk" statement and I knew something is wrong so I went to see whats happening and my gf told me that she want to tell me that I have many negative points she listed them like that I am a control freak (she explains that I don't listen to her and I always chose the places where to go and other things...) , I am ice cold (I don't get aggressive when she try to provoke me), I am self centered and selfish , I don't trust people and I don't open up to them and many other things...she told that she tested me many times and the failure is more than the success she only told me about one test where she asked me to go bicycle riding with her and I canceled the date but the next day I took her to do jogging when she didn't want to do it.
what does she mean by that is this some kind of a crap test or its really something wrong with me!!?

 

[DJDamage]

If any girl decides to evalulate your relationship, just tell her: "After listening to your evaluation it has come to my attention that we shouldn't see each other anymore, you obviously are looking for an obedient pet and I am not going to be a pet- goodbye it was nice knowing you for a while and I hope your new boyfriend will become the door mat you wish him to be".

 

[Bible_Belt]

what does she mean by that is this some kind of a crap test

Yes, it's a test. You pass by telling her that you and her must not be compatible and you should see other people. Don't ever let anyone pass judgment on you, especially a woman. If someone says you're not good enough for them, tell them to fvck off.

 

[I.A.F.Y.B.]

Yeah man. Who does she think she is telling you how to be? You better put her in check or leave some black roses and be on your way.

 

[j0n024]

Good answers...tell us what you do and update man dont puss out remember....you are in control of what YOU do not let someone tell you what to do.

 

[The Forms]

I would end it too. You'll come off as a douche if you say, "I'm not some little dog for you to control" or something similiar. Screams "insecure." Don't be bitter or be a jerk. That's what girls want you to do in a breakup, that way it's easier for them to get over you, because it's easier to remember you being a jerk in the end.

I'd say something along the lines of, "I'm sorry you see me in that light. But, I am what I am and I like it that way. I'm not going to change for you. We obviously aren't as compatable as I hoped, so we should probably quit seeing each other." That way SHE is the one getting dumped, but she can't really call you an *******, because she asked for it and you gave it to her without you having to be an ass in the process.

 

[Sicx]

Agreed on the above posts.

But then again, i would still slightly think about some of the stuff she said and just run it through your head and see what you think.

 

[wjh]

If any girl decides to evalulate your relationship, just tell her: "After listening to your evaluation it has come to my attention that we shouldn't see each other anymore, you obviously are looking for an obedient pet and I am not going to be a pet- goodbye it was nice knowing you for a while and I hope your new boyfriend will become the door mat you wish him to be".

LOL - hilarious

 

[ready123]

LOL - hilarious

cool man, another brotha from the Valley!

 

[KontrollerX]

Yes, it's a test. You pass by telling her that you and her must not be compatible and you should see other people. Don't ever let anyone pass judgment on you, especially a woman. If someone says you're not good enough for them, tell them to fvck off.

Quoted for truth.

Walk away from this one bro.

She gave you a great opening so that you can do the breaking up first so she gets left with the emotional fallout from the breakup instead of you.

 

[Rash]

Ok I talked to her and surprisingly she told me that she felt we are going into an LTR and she wanted to be honest with me then she started spilling over her guts and saying all the negative things about her so I can know her better before taking this road she surprised me when she said that she is not comfortable being with a man with more value than her because I am more educated and make a lot more of money , she also told me that she is a narcissist, mean to other people (she started giving me examples about he she hurt her friends) and other bad traits of her...
I ended this chat because I had something very important to do and I told her that we will continue this tomorrow.

 

[nismo-4]

If any girl decides to evalulate your relationship, just tell her: "After listening to your evaluation it has come to my attention that we shouldn't see each other anymore, you obviously are looking for an obedient pet and I am not going to be a pet- goodbye it was nice knowing you for a while and I hope your new boyfriend will become the door mat you wish him to be".

BOO-YAH!!!

It's better to be hated for what you are than to be loved for what you're not.

 

[Bible_Belt]

she said that she is not comfortable being with a man with more value than her because I am more educated and make a lot more of money

The root of any insult is in the low self-esteem of its issuer. She couldn't tear you down to balance you two out in her mind, so now she is tearing down herself. btw, narcissists don't see their flaws like that. She just has low self-esteem.