"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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An emotional moment about the Forum

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at lunch I was at Taco bell right by here with some friends..and I heard some "hicks" in the corner..say ****** this and ****** that.

and I was thinking of how...people of races, ages, religions, ideas come here..almost all for the same purpose.


I think that is awesome..and I hope I can be a help in anyway...and I will be more patient with people from now on..instead of throwing out my ego like Im king Chris Biscan.

thanks
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by frivolousz21
at lunch I was at Taco bell right by here with some friends..and I heard some "hicks" in the corner..say ****** this and ****** that.

and I was thinking of how...people of races, ages, religions, ideas come here..almost all for the same purpose.


I think that is awesome..and I hope I can be a help in anyway...and I will be more patient with people from now on..instead of throwing out my ego like Im king Chris Biscan.

thanks
And martin luther king's dream has begun. Good for you.
 

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Actually, the average person on here is a white male aged 15-17.

I hope you weren't being racist/culturalist before this point to people on the board, which is what you pretty much implied... :p
 

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Originally posted by diablo
Actually, the average person on here is a white male aged 15-17.

I hope you weren't being racist/culturalist before this point to people on the board, which is what you pretty much implied... :p
Completely irrelevant what he "was" since he is "now" a really cool cat who is trying to get along with everyone.
 

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Absolutely... all that's needed is good advice to people who are having problems - not drama. That's for off the internet. :)

Eh, this isn't discussing women, just how he's going to be friendlier on here. Anything Else.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I was implying that people are still racist..ive never been racists..never will be.

I grew up in a very diverse area...I had a white trash dad and a druggie mom.


I was just saying its nice to have places like this..where we dont have to deal with peoples ignorance in that regard
 

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Originally posted by frivolousz21
I was implying that people are still racist..ive never been racists..never will be.

I grew up in a very diverse area...I had a white trash dad and a druggie mom.


I was just saying its nice to have places like this..where we dont have to deal with peoples ignorance in that regard
I can feel the energy you will sending out and I knew it was friendly, so we are glad to have you here.
 

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True, but a lot of that might be due to the nature of the internet itself. It's anonymous - nobody can tell by looking at your username (for the most part) what your age, religion, or ethnicity is. As for this forum, the people who do come in here blasting other based on these things are generally removed within a short period of time...
 

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friv really is a positive mother****er...i'm glad he's here and i never really noticed him being impatient with anyone so this is news to me
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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