"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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at lunch I was at Taco bell right by here with some friends..and I heard some "hicks" in the corner..say ****** this and ****** that.

and I was thinking of how...people of races, ages, religions, ideas come here..almost all for the same purpose.


I think that is awesome..and I hope I can be a help in anyway...and I will be more patient with people from now on..instead of throwing out my ego like Im king Chris Biscan.

thanks
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by frivolousz21
at lunch I was at Taco bell right by here with some friends..and I heard some "hicks" in the corner..say ****** this and ****** that.

and I was thinking of how...people of races, ages, religions, ideas come here..almost all for the same purpose.


I think that is awesome..and I hope I can be a help in anyway...and I will be more patient with people from now on..instead of throwing out my ego like Im king Chris Biscan.

thanks
And martin luther king's dream has begun. Good for you.
 

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Actually, the average person on here is a white male aged 15-17.

I hope you weren't being racist/culturalist before this point to people on the board, which is what you pretty much implied... :p
 

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Originally posted by diablo
Actually, the average person on here is a white male aged 15-17.

I hope you weren't being racist/culturalist before this point to people on the board, which is what you pretty much implied... :p
Completely irrelevant what he "was" since he is "now" a really cool cat who is trying to get along with everyone.
 

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Absolutely... all that's needed is good advice to people who are having problems - not drama. That's for off the internet. :)

Eh, this isn't discussing women, just how he's going to be friendlier on here. Anything Else.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I was implying that people are still racist..ive never been racists..never will be.

I grew up in a very diverse area...I had a white trash dad and a druggie mom.


I was just saying its nice to have places like this..where we dont have to deal with peoples ignorance in that regard
 

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Originally posted by frivolousz21
I was implying that people are still racist..ive never been racists..never will be.

I grew up in a very diverse area...I had a white trash dad and a druggie mom.


I was just saying its nice to have places like this..where we dont have to deal with peoples ignorance in that regard
I can feel the energy you will sending out and I knew it was friendly, so we are glad to have you here.
 

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True, but a lot of that might be due to the nature of the internet itself. It's anonymous - nobody can tell by looking at your username (for the most part) what your age, religion, or ethnicity is. As for this forum, the people who do come in here blasting other based on these things are generally removed within a short period of time...
 

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friv really is a positive mother****er...i'm glad he's here and i never really noticed him being impatient with anyone so this is news to me
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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