An arguement between three friends

[Tongs]

Suppose three guys know a girl.

Guys #1 and #2 think that said girl is interested in guy #3, for the following reasons:

- When girl comes around, she always talks to guy #3 before anyone else
- When girl is around and in conversation with the group, most of the conversation is with guy #3
- Girl asks guy #3 to do tiny (and relatively pointless) things

Now, guy #3 thinks that girl is just friendly and is the kind of girl that uses looks to get what she wants


Who do YOU think is right? Guys #1 and 2, or guy #3

 

[Heyzeus]

sounds like she could be interested but it could be a few things.

she could actually like him,

she could just feel like she has more in common with him and feel a closer connection to him hence why she talks to him first, maybe to get the conversation going and then it's easier for the whole group to talk.

or maybe she just wants to get him to do little stuff for her.

only way he'll know is if he asks her or gets her number.

 

[Tongs]

I was thinking option number 2 and 3 were the more likely ones

 

[Phyzzle]

Uh, why doesn't guy #3 ask the girl out, one on one?

Jesus.

 

[Tongs]

Uh, why doesn't guy #3 ask the girl out, one on one?

Maybe he isn't interested, and is just wishing to settle a bet with friends on which option is more probable

 

[Trapper]

the main target is not the guy#3.. number 2 or 1...she might be trying to make the the target jealous...could be..

 

[Phyzzle]

Maybe he isn't interested, and is just wishing to settle a bet with friends on which option is more probable

Even though you're not interested, there's a HUGE misconception about female behaviour here.

The lesson here is, there is absolutely no way of knowing this stuff from flirty interactions. Chicks obsessed with guys, and uninterested chicks who want attention, will flirt in exactly the same manner. That's why you escalate. Ask for her #, get her alone, yadda yadda.

Sorry, if you want to know, you have to stop analyzing and find out.

 

[Tongs]

bump

 

[ScrewIt]

I say guy #3 is right. With girls you never know their intentions because they know how to manipulate men to get what they want. Girls know how to exploit their power until the guy stands his ground.

I say, she's using guy 3 for a quick ego boost and seeing how far she can get him to do things for her.
OR
she's using guy 3 to get thorugh to guy 1 or guy 2. You know how it is, sometimes it's easier talking to the uglier girl to get to her HB friend because fear of rejection doesnt happen with the ugly girl.