“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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An Alpha male would not hate women.

skinnyguy

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Alpha males either have a woman living with them, or have harems of women surrounding them. No alpha male I have ever known has ever complained about women.

This is because women become very submissive around alpha males. An alpha male is able to get women to work for them, in that they behave in a certain way that is beneficial to the man.

Just food for thought.
 

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I agree, but I don't think you should be posting advice threads until you get your own house in order, skinny.
 

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Where has this crap come from ? How can you relate hating women and being alpha together ? People who normally "hate" are too weak minded enough to admit that they are the problem - not the situation/person/what ever. They can't deal with it so they mentally label it negatively. Alphas are strong minded. A strong minded person is in control of himself... not the other way around.
 

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It's not that I "hate" women. I don't really hate anyone. To hate someone means you give a sh!t about that person you don't like. What I've started doing is speaking my mind, whether it's popular or not. Case in point, this girl just recently got knocked up and everyone was all "congratulations!" "yay!", "yippee!". All I asked was "who's the father? I didn't know you were dating anyone" My God you'd thought I'd stolen a lolly-pop from a 2 year old! Most of my friends, and even people I didn't know jumped all over me for that remark. I thought it was a simple question.lol I know that months from now this same girl is going to be b!tching about men and posting her troubles all over facebook about how life isn't fair all because SHE made a bad choice who to spread her legs for. It's not anyone else's fault but hers. Most likely I'll have to end up paying for this stupid kid because her @$$ will be on WIC and other bs handouts. I'm also tired of women complaining about guys they CHOOSE to be with. I offer a simple solution, don't complain, DO something about it. Don't like that your man won't get a job? Dump him. Don't like that he cheats on you all the time? Dump him. I mean it's really simple.
 

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Robert28 said:
It's not that I "hate" women. I don't really hate anyone. To hate someone means you give a sh!t about that person you don't like. What I've started doing is speaking my mind, whether it's popular or not. Case in point, this girl just recently got knocked up and everyone was all "congratulations!" "yay!", "yippee!". All I asked was "who's the father? I didn't know you were dating anyone" My God you'd thought I'd stolen a lolly-pop from a 2 year old! Most of my friends, and even people I didn't know jumped all over me for that remark. I thought it was a simple question.lol I know that months from now this same girl is going to be b!tching about men and posting her troubles all over facebook about how life isn't fair all because SHE made a bad choice who to spread her legs for. It's not anyone else's fault but hers. Most likely I'll have to end up paying for this stupid kid because her @$$ will be on WIC and other bs handouts. I'm also tired of women complaining about guys they CHOOSE to be with. I offer a simple solution, don't complain, DO something about it. Don't like that your man won't get a job? Dump him. Don't like that he cheats on you all the time? Dump him. I mean it's really simple.
it sounds like you do have some hate toward women. i know because i was the same as you awhile back. prolly should have kept that comment to yourself. i used to say things like that, and it only made people irritated and made me look like an idiot. fighting against the nature of things will get you nowhere. do the opposite.
i dont mean to sound all white knighty but just congratulate her and do something nice for her like buy her something for her kid. the faults we see in others tend to come more from us than them. complaining about women getting this and that and saying my life isnt fair, me me me....just sounds b!tchy and unmanly.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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spang said:
it sounds like you do have some hate toward women. i know because i was the same as you awhile back. prolly should have kept that comment to yourself. i used to say things like that, and it only made people irritated and made me look like an idiot. fighting against the nature of things will get you nowhere. do the opposite.
i dont mean to sound all white knighty but just congratulate her and do something nice for her like buy her something for her kid. the faults we see in others tend to come more from us than them. complaining about women getting this and that and saying my life isnt fair, me me me....just sounds b!tchy and unmanly.
Pointing out the truth has nothing to do with hating women. The last thing this world needs is more people raising kids in single parent households. We do no one a favor by keeping silent or actively encouraging it.
 

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Robert28 said:
I know that months from now this same girl is going to be b!tching about men and posting her troubles all over facebook about how life isn't fair all because SHE made a bad choice who to spread her legs for.

It's not anyone else's fault but hers.
Yeah, this may be true in some cases. But it's not always this way.
 

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I think women are ****ty people. I was taught to relate to women like men, because they are equal, bla bla bla.

I used to hate. But now I look at it this way. Men and women are as equal as apples and oranges.

Both are fruit. Both grow on trees.

However both require different climates, and conditions, they have different needs.

Maybe some of you will feel the hate when you first get unplugged, and thats ok, your not wrong.

But in time, you will not feel the same way. You will look at women as the dumb dumbs they are. You dont hate women, you hate the lies you have been told, and the fact you've been tricked.

Dont hate the matrix, use it to benefit you. Look out for you, better yourself. Master yourself. Dominate you, and you will dominate life.
 

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Was it Solomon that said something along the lines of "there are no good women, there are no bad women. There are just...women"?
 

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I don't hate women, it's more that i'm jealous of them, well mainly the hot desirable ones, and it's not because they don't have to approach, it's because they don't really need to be interesting, exciting or have a life in order to get a guy, even PlayHerMan said so on here that a womans life is like free food delivery everyday.

Basically this sums up what we guys have to do in order be boyfriend material or just be attractive to women: ""Have your own life, your own hobbies, your own interests, your own friends. She should not be the 100% focus of your life.

Plan your weeks some time in advance. If she wants to do something, don't be afraid to say No if you don't want to do it. Or if you have scheduled something else at the same time.

Ultimately it comes down to this - you must not be afraid of losing her. You must act as though getting a girlfriend after her, will take you all of 5 minutes and it's not a big deal if she gets pissed off and dumps you.

If you can manage that, you will never come off as desperate." "
"Just have a life of your own. Show her that you have other things going on in your life and hence your life doesn't revolve around her. So you will need to have an active life, get involved in social events, develop and pursue hobbies etc. When girls hear your stories, they will know you have an active, busy life, and they will want to apart of it"

Women however, just have to exist, they don't need jack**** going for them in their life and most men will still accept them, give them a chance.
 

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JaegerPilot217 said:
I don't hate women, it's more that i'm jealous of them, well mainly the hot desirable ones, and it's not because they don't have to approach, it's because they don't really need to be interesting, exciting or have a life in order to get a guy, even PlayHerMan said so on here that a womans life is like free food delivery everyday.


Women however, just have to exist, they don't need jack**** going for them in their life and most men will still accept them, give them a chance.
i dont think thats entirely true. i joined another forum awhile back and i got to read some threads started by women, talking about how they loved a certain guy while a lot of guys are chasing them that they didnt want. i got a front row seat to THEIR insecurity, loneliness and neediness. what i took from that is that they might have a lot of suitors but the man they really wanted seemed out of reach to them. so its as much of a challenge for them as it is for us.
all of us want to have our cake and eat it too.
 

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spang said:
i dont think thats entirely true. i joined another forum awhile back and i got to read some threads started by women, talking about how they loved a certain guy while a lot of guys are chasing them that they didnt want. i got a front row seat to THEIR insecurity, loneliness and neediness. what i took from that is that they might have a lot of suitors but the man they really wanted seemed out of reach to them. so its as much of a challenge for them as it is for us.
all of us want to have our cake and eat it too.
True but even when women do end up with the type of man they want, still, the woman didn't really need to have a life, be interesting, have things going for her, etc., in order to attract that guy
 

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skinnyguy said:
Alpha males either have a woman living with them, or have harems of women surrounding them. No alpha male I have ever known has ever complained about women.

This is because women become very submissive around alpha males. An alpha male is able to get women to work for them, in that they behave in a certain way that is beneficial to the man.

Just food for thought.
So you're basically saying you are NOT an alpha male then. :crackup:

It seems the majority of your threads are designed to shame men who follow the DJ or red pill mindset. Why such a big white knight? I think you need to worry more about becoming an alpha male and less about pointing out who isn't an alpha male.

Just sayin' :up:
 

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Yes I agree with this. Even though on a rational basis I can see women for their true nature, I'm not able to hate them. All I have brought up are good experiences and memories when I think about women.

For the record I don't consider myself to be an alpha. I've just been very lucky with girls so to speak.
 

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PlayHer Man said:
So you're basically saying you are NOT an alpha male then. :crackup:

It seems the majority of your threads are designed to shame men who follow the DJ or red pill mindset. Why such a big white knight? I think you need to worry more about becoming an alpha male and less about pointing out who isn't an alpha male.

Just sayin' :up:
This is a dumb reply not even worth responding to, but I guess I'll do it anyway. When did I say I was an alpha male? You don't have to be an alpha male to know what the qualities of one are.

I'm not sure exactly how I'm being a white knight by posting good advice for guys on here. I'm not saying "be submissive to women" which is what white knights are doing. I'm saying "be dominant" which is exactly what you preach. Are you going back on your word now that I'm saying the same things just for the sake of disagreeing with me? :crackup:
 

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Ill let you meet some woman who get so much attention(model i used to date) they seem like submissive but dude when you show AFC signs, its game over
 

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This is a dumb reply not even worth responding to, but I guess I'll do it anyway. When did I say I was an alpha male? You don't have to be an alpha male to know what the qualities of one are.

I'm not sure exactly how I'm being a white knight by posting good advice for guys on here. I'm not saying "be submissive to women" which is what white knights are doing. I'm saying "be dominant" which is exactly what you preach. Are you going back on your word now that I'm saying the same things just for the sake of disagreeing with me? :crackup:
You need to follow what I preach before you start preaching yourself. You are in no position to give advice when you haven't lived the life yet.

You are like someone who takes a business management class on weekends.. then starts writing books and giving seminars on how to manage a Fortune 500 company. :crackup: :crackup:

Until you've been out in the field and applied your knowledge.. you are still relevantly clueless and your inner beta fag will take over the minute a woman throws an unexpected curve-ball your way. I know this because I read a lot of material before practicing too. Nothing beats experience. You'll find that what works for some men wont work for you. Until you develop your own successful formula.. you are just regurgitating study notes.
 

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spang said:
I don't mean to sound all white knighty but just congratulate her and do something nice for her like buy her something for her kid. the faults we see in others tend to come more from us than them. complaining about women getting this and that and saying my life isnt fair, me me me....just sounds b!tchy and unmanly.
I find that actually life is fair. Its often people in it who aren't. Fair is not a word I'd use, anyway. Hard, confusing, complicated and full of social injustice, yes.
 

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noobolgy said:
I think women are ****ty people. I was taught to relate to women like men, because they are equal, bla bla bla.

I used to hate. But now I look at it this way. Men and women are as equal as apples and oranges.

Both are fruit. Both grow on trees.

However both require different climates, and conditions, they have different needs

Maybe some of you will feel the hate when you first get unplugged, and thats ok, your not wrong.

But in time, you will not feel the same way. You will look at women as the dumb dumbs they are. You dont hate women, you hate the lies you have been told, and the fact you've been tricked.

Dont hate the matrix, use it to benefit you. Look out for you, better yourself. Master yourself. Dominate you, and you will dominate life.
Like this.:up:

"Apples and oranges"
 

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Basically women do not need to have their own life, own hobbies, own friends, own interests in order to get a guy, even though the majority of desirable women have those traits, they usually do not determine us guys attraction towards them, it doesn't matter usually
 
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