SeymourCake
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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
wreck maino? are you sure lol do some research lolPhat said:that guy is a ****ing faggot id wreck his ass
What a beta response. Maino smacks people like you...For fun.Phat said:that guy is a ****ing faggot id wreck his ass
You know him personally, i take it?SeymourCake said:What a beta response. Maino smacks people like you...For fun.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
She said what she was suppose to say.Real Talk said:You know him personally, i take it?
He looks like ron artest. Rhymes aren't hot, and my Gf Says hes ugly.
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1) My woman has known who Maino is since early this year.SeymourCake said:http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZBNbuRVMsM8
And that didn't come from your shallow GF. That came from you. Don't lie you men judger.
Okay. I don't knock a guy for his environment and how he was brought up. But in this video he's SELLING A PRODUCT before anything else.SeymourCake said:Alpha male recognizes alpha male. Maino is not the best rapper but he's an alpha male.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
lol...SeymourCake said:Alpha male recognizes alpha male.