SeymourCake
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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
wreck maino? are you sure lol do some research lolPhat said:that guy is a ****ing faggot id wreck his ass
What a beta response. Maino smacks people like you...For fun.Phat said:that guy is a ****ing faggot id wreck his ass
You know him personally, i take it?SeymourCake said:What a beta response. Maino smacks people like you...For fun.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
She said what she was suppose to say.Real Talk said:You know him personally, i take it?
He looks like ron artest. Rhymes aren't hot, and my Gf Says hes ugly.
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1) My woman has known who Maino is since early this year.SeymourCake said:http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZBNbuRVMsM8
And that didn't come from your shallow GF. That came from you. Don't lie you men judger.
Okay. I don't knock a guy for his environment and how he was brought up. But in this video he's SELLING A PRODUCT before anything else.SeymourCake said:Alpha male recognizes alpha male. Maino is not the best rapper but he's an alpha male.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
lol...SeymourCake said:Alpha male recognizes alpha male.