logan
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yet another danish guy, Tk Logan from kobenhagen/københavn, Denmark/Danmark
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
An almost complete list of where a lot of people are from...
- Thread starter Eternal
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
logan
New Member
yet another danish guy, Tk Logan from kobenhagen/københavn, Denmark/Danmark
logan
New Member
yet another danish guy, Tk Logan from kobenhagen/københavn, Denmark/Danmark
h2o
Banned
edit: wrong post
kulowiper
Don Juan
california baby
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Smooth Player 056
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Jul 6, 2005
- Messages
- 868
- Reaction score
- 3
San Mateo, California
cactus3178
Senior Don Juan
<- Portland, Oregon.
sixefftee
New Member
florida
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
B-Lemond
Master Don Juan
WTF?! Am I the only one from Delaware?! I have to move!
Viper
Banned
Ohio here.
mariosex
Don Juan
new zealand 
Boner da Stoner
Master Don Juan
IQALUIT(get that no U after the Q ya arctic haters)
Nunavut(our land, controlled by the gov't, paid for by american defense systems, sustained by canadian territorial money, ruined by 150 years of sexual abuse, and claimed by canada through "outpost camps")
Canada(Our home and sacred land)
if anybody's willin to front a 1500$ return ticket to and from ottawa, or is willing to charter for 21 G's should gimme a shout
Nunavut(our land, controlled by the gov't, paid for by american defense systems, sustained by canadian territorial money, ruined by 150 years of sexual abuse, and claimed by canada through "outpost camps")
Canada(Our home and sacred land
)if anybody's willin to front a 1500$ return ticket to and from ottawa, or is willing to charter for 21 G's should gimme a shout
Deadly_Assassin
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Jul 8, 2003
- Messages
- 549
- Reaction score
- 4
- Age
- 42
Auckland, New Zealand
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
wordism
Don Juan
< Texas
The Nice Guy is Gone
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Aug 26, 2005
- Messages
- 325
- Reaction score
- 3
Texas
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.