Brother_Rapp
Banned
Perhaps the list should be revised and alphabetized.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
An almost complete list of where a lot of people are from...
- Thread starter Eternal
- Start date
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
eternal or whoever is in charge. could you perhaps change my sn from baseballDJ to Comic_Relief
*Mariosex
Don Juan
New Zealand 
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?"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Attraction
Don Juan
Attraction
from PAKISTAN. i guess i am teh only representative of Pakistan on this forum.
from PAKISTAN. i guess i am teh only representative of Pakistan on this forum.
Toohot4upilot
Don Juan
Forgot me too, UK Scotland
DonRob
Don Juan
Columbus, Ohio
Lost
Master Don Juan
Arkansas Little Rock
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
jiza101
Master Don Juan
i watched a flight show investigation, where a plane crashed there Melbourne, Australia representing :rockon:
vanwilder
Senior Don Juan
calgary
thatbreaker
New Member
- Joined
- Jun 22, 2005
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- 3
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You forgot me because im new.
Thatbreaker In Los Angeles, Killa California
Thatbreaker In Los Angeles, Killa California
NYC Dude
Master Don Juan
New York City, NY. Hence the name
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
SlyD4rK
Don Juan
fresno/visalia area CALI
KingBeef
Master Don Juan
NYC
jjwwinc
New Member
NEw Guy
PLease add me to your list.
JJWWINC
Pennsyvlavia
Philadelphia
PLease add me to your list.
JJWWINC
Pennsyvlavia
Philadelphia
Lost
Master Don Juan
Charleston, South Carolina
godzilla007
New Member
- Joined
- May 26, 2005
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- 6
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Somerset, New Jersey
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.