Brother_Rapp
Banned
Perhaps the list should be revised and alphabetized.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
An almost complete list of where a lot of people are from...
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
eternal or whoever is in charge. could you perhaps change my sn from baseballDJ to Comic_Relief
*Mariosex
Don Juan
New Zealand 
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?"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Attraction
Don Juan
Attraction
from PAKISTAN. i guess i am teh only representative of Pakistan on this forum.
from PAKISTAN. i guess i am teh only representative of Pakistan on this forum.
Toohot4upilot
Don Juan
Forgot me too, UK Scotland
DonRob
Don Juan
Columbus, Ohio
Lost
Master Don Juan
Arkansas Little Rock
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
jiza101
Master Don Juan
i watched a flight show investigation, where a plane crashed there Melbourne, Australia representing :rockon:
vanwilder
Senior Don Juan
calgary
thatbreaker
New Member
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You forgot me because im new.
Thatbreaker In Los Angeles, Killa California
Thatbreaker In Los Angeles, Killa California
NYC Dude
Master Don Juan
New York City, NY. Hence the name
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
SlyD4rK
Don Juan
fresno/visalia area CALI
KingBeef
Master Don Juan
NYC
jjwwinc
New Member
NEw Guy
PLease add me to your list.
JJWWINC
Pennsyvlavia
Philadelphia
PLease add me to your list.
JJWWINC
Pennsyvlavia
Philadelphia
Lost
Master Don Juan
Charleston, South Carolina
godzilla007
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Somerset, New Jersey
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.