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Don Juan
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You can add to Arizona's list. I live in tempe while i'm school then in Goodyear during the summer.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
An almost complete list of where a lot of people are from...
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
HuangBei
Don Juan
I'm from Dallas, Texas.
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
rite now i'm in st. catharines, ontario
jonny football hero
Master Don Juan
England.
You forget canada.Originally posted by Pfeile
Thanks?LOL. Seriously, there were non-convict people too, and I would proudly like to say that our 'convict country' was one of the very few to gain independence peacefully. No stupid war of independence for us. We're smarter than that.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Lost
Master Don Juan
i dont know if i said but my parents and i moved to arkansas
im a freshman in college. and i will probly transfer next year or year after. not sure where yet. somewhere on the coast (hopefully california ;x)
im a freshman in college. and i will probly transfer next year or year after. not sure where yet. somewhere on the coast (hopefully california ;x)
11of10
New Member
Hi,
now you can put AUSTRIA on your list ...
where Arnie's from .. ;-)
now you can put AUSTRIA on your list ...
where Arnie's from .. ;-)
FreeStyleZ
Senior Don Juan
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<-- Maryland
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
seize_the_pattern
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Belgium
FreeStyleZ
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MD for me.
comminback
Don Juan
North, South Carolina!!!
haha, yeah, that's right.
You can classify it as Columbia or Orangeburg if you like.
Thanks
comminback
haha, yeah, that's right.
You can classify it as Columbia or Orangeburg if you like.
Thanks
comminback
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
jbbrain
Master Don Juan
montreal, canada biiiiiiiiatch!
misterethoughts
Don Juan
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cali cali cali
Hey... man i am up in cali too don't forget me....
Hey... man i am up in cali too don't forget me....
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.