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Don Juan
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You can add to Arizona's list. I live in tempe while i'm school then in Goodyear during the summer.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
An almost complete list of where a lot of people are from...
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
HuangBei
Don Juan
I'm from Dallas, Texas.
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
rite now i'm in st. catharines, ontario
jonny football hero
Master Don Juan
England.
You forget canada.Originally posted by Pfeile
Thanks?LOL. Seriously, there were non-convict people too, and I would proudly like to say that our 'convict country' was one of the very few to gain independence peacefully. No stupid war of independence for us. We're smarter than that.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Lost
Master Don Juan
i dont know if i said but my parents and i moved to arkansas
im a freshman in college. and i will probly transfer next year or year after. not sure where yet. somewhere on the coast (hopefully california ;x)
im a freshman in college. and i will probly transfer next year or year after. not sure where yet. somewhere on the coast (hopefully california ;x)
11of10
New Member
Hi,
now you can put AUSTRIA on your list ...
where Arnie's from .. ;-)
now you can put AUSTRIA on your list ...
where Arnie's from .. ;-)
FreeStyleZ
Senior Don Juan
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<-- Maryland
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
seize_the_pattern
Don Juan
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Belgium
FreeStyleZ
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MD for me.
comminback
Don Juan
North, South Carolina!!!
haha, yeah, that's right.
You can classify it as Columbia or Orangeburg if you like.
Thanks
comminback
haha, yeah, that's right.
You can classify it as Columbia or Orangeburg if you like.
Thanks
comminback
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
jbbrain
Master Don Juan
montreal, canada biiiiiiiiatch!
misterethoughts
Don Juan
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cali cali cali
Hey... man i am up in cali too don't forget me....
Hey... man i am up in cali too don't forget me....
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.