"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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An actually real confusing case of she likes/doesn't

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I have a question, I've run into an interesting situation with a girl (I'll call her Z). Z saw me flirting with a lot of girls , she got jealous cause I didn't pay attention to her. Now Z thinks I'm a player and is constantly joking around saying that I'm so hot or whatever(sarcastically). I tell her "I know" Z continues with doing that now with her friend except she doesn't complement me. Z saw this other girl try to kiss me in class and got in the way. BUt then she started acting all sarcastic("Your so hot! I love you!") again much later. She laughs her brains out and she thinks I like her. At first she said that she had a boyfriend and that he wouldn't like me. She offered this information to me (sounds to me like she wanted to sound unattainable so I would go after her). I didn't care if she had a boyfriend(this was three weeks ago), I was too busy with the other girls.

Now she lets me hear she's not with him while talking to a friend. she always wants to touch me, hold hands. Is this a game to make a fool out of me or is she for real? Things contridict themselves. Does she want me to chase her? Her friend says she likes me but I don't know her and it could be a ploy. She sounds too fake. She's very cute but this is too complicating. What should I do and say to her while protecting my ego without looking stupid if it is a game? ANYONE with a similar situation before?

Yes this whole thing is immature of her but I want to know if she likes me or not. It's bothering me and if she doesn't like me then she needs to stop doing what she's doing.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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"if you're going to act like this, don't even bother talking to me."

-that line will shape her up.
 
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If she is confusing you then she's not worth your time, if she makes you happy then maybe you should consider giving her some of your attention.
 
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hehe, never said I wanted her but I want to know if she likes me. I guess I'm on an ego trip a little. Porky, I'll try it. Should I tell her alone?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by MacdaddyJr
hehe, never said I wanted her but I want to know if she likes me. I guess I'm on an ego trip a little. Porky, I'll try it. Should I tell her alone?
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The fact that you made this thread is evidence enough that you are, in fact, attracted to her. Either way, she's not worth your time mate. There are more important things...
 
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Okay, your right sammo. End of discussion about this girl. I nexted her anyways, found a girl who doesn't play games
 
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