"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

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The words come later. The impression comes first.

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An actually real confusing case of she likes/doesn't

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I have a question, I've run into an interesting situation with a girl (I'll call her Z). Z saw me flirting with a lot of girls , she got jealous cause I didn't pay attention to her. Now Z thinks I'm a player and is constantly joking around saying that I'm so hot or whatever(sarcastically). I tell her "I know" Z continues with doing that now with her friend except she doesn't complement me. Z saw this other girl try to kiss me in class and got in the way. BUt then she started acting all sarcastic("Your so hot! I love you!") again much later. She laughs her brains out and she thinks I like her. At first she said that she had a boyfriend and that he wouldn't like me. She offered this information to me (sounds to me like she wanted to sound unattainable so I would go after her). I didn't care if she had a boyfriend(this was three weeks ago), I was too busy with the other girls.

Now she lets me hear she's not with him while talking to a friend. she always wants to touch me, hold hands. Is this a game to make a fool out of me or is she for real? Things contridict themselves. Does she want me to chase her? Her friend says she likes me but I don't know her and it could be a ploy. She sounds too fake. She's very cute but this is too complicating. What should I do and say to her while protecting my ego without looking stupid if it is a game? ANYONE with a similar situation before?

Yes this whole thing is immature of her but I want to know if she likes me or not. It's bothering me and if she doesn't like me then she needs to stop doing what she's doing.
 

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"if you're going to act like this, don't even bother talking to me."

-that line will shape her up.
 
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If she is confusing you then she's not worth your time, if she makes you happy then maybe you should consider giving her some of your attention.
 
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hehe, never said I wanted her but I want to know if she likes me. I guess I'm on an ego trip a little. Porky, I'll try it. Should I tell her alone?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by MacdaddyJr
hehe, never said I wanted her but I want to know if she likes me. I guess I'm on an ego trip a little. Porky, I'll try it. Should I tell her alone?
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The fact that you made this thread is evidence enough that you are, in fact, attracted to her. Either way, she's not worth your time mate. There are more important things...
 
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Okay, your right sammo. End of discussion about this girl. I nexted her anyways, found a girl who doesn't play games
 
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