"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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amongst friends, who wins?

tryst type

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ok youre at a gathering and your friends as well as yourself target a girl. hypothetically speaking you're all very aware of the dj attributes, way to convery words, c&f.

wouldnt she therotically be attracted to you all? should you lean back more, say less while they do, what types of things do you do to make yourself stand out and have her target you?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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This is a non-issue. It's whoever decides to go talk to her. And if she's comes to the group, she already has someone in mind.

And yes, she could be attracted to more than one peron in the group. Who cares?
 

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from experience, the guy whos the most aggressive and who possesses the infamous i-know-what-i-want-and-how-to-get- it-attitude will be looked as the desirable guy..but at the same time, don't be the guy who is sweating her ovaries trying to hard...
 

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My problem is with friends around they tend to blabber too much and I can't get my game in. I'm better one on one or with 1 other friend around. Any tips?
 

Thatfeel21

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if they blabber nonsense then you might be aight...but make sure when you do talk to her directly, touch her the most (subtley)..and joke around with your boys a lot in front of her to make it seem like you arethe fun and popular guy of the group, whos cool to be around...establish yourself as VIP status, know what i mean? i guarantee you though, the more you elevate your game while in front of them, unconsciously, the harder your boys will try to win her, so keep that in mind...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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True. How could I isolate her if this is at a party or any other social gathering for full effect on my part?
 

Thatfeel21

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well sheeiit, if youre at a party then lucky you, half your work is done...but imma warn you, some tips here say to do some push pull techniques but if you create attraction then fall back, then some guy will come up and steal your girl....the key at a party/bar scene, is to make sure she knows YOURE in control of the conversation/situation...at some point of thje party, telll her to go to the fridge to grab you a beer, or in the mid of a convo, go to the bathroom and tell her to hold that thought, its a good test to see if shes into you or if you;re wasting youre time
 

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If I'm at am party, drunk girls usually just jump me.

But if your with friends, just be the more agressive guy, verbally that is. She'll be drawn to the guy who's talking the most.
 
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