amongst friends, who wins?

[tryst type]

ok youre at a gathering and your friends as well as yourself target a girl. hypothetically speaking you're all very aware of the dj attributes, way to convery words, c&f.

wouldnt she therotically be attracted to you all? should you lean back more, say less while they do, what types of things do you do to make yourself stand out and have her target you?

 

[Rex Man]

This is a non-issue. It's whoever decides to go talk to her. And if she's comes to the group, she already has someone in mind.

And yes, she could be attracted to more than one peron in the group. Who cares?

 

[Thatfeel21]

from experience, the guy whos the most aggressive and who possesses the infamous i-know-what-i-want-and-how-to-get- it-attitude will be looked as the desirable guy..but at the same time, don't be the guy who is sweating her ovaries trying to hard...

 

[tryst type]

My problem is with friends around they tend to blabber too much and I can't get my game in. I'm better one on one or with 1 other friend around. Any tips?

 

[Thatfeel21]

if they blabber nonsense then you might be aight...but make sure when you do talk to her directly, touch her the most (subtley)..and joke around with your boys a lot in front of her to make it seem like you arethe fun and popular guy of the group, whos cool to be around...establish yourself as VIP status, know what i mean? i guarantee you though, the more you elevate your game while in front of them, unconsciously, the harder your boys will try to win her, so keep that in mind...

 

[tryst type]

True. How could I isolate her if this is at a party or any other social gathering for full effect on my part?

 

[Thatfeel21]

well sheeiit, if youre at a party then lucky you, half your work is done...but imma warn you, some tips here say to do some push pull techniques but if you create attraction then fall back, then some guy will come up and steal your girl....the key at a party/bar scene, is to make sure she knows YOURE in control of the conversation/situation...at some point of thje party, telll her to go to the fridge to grab you a beer, or in the mid of a convo, go to the bathroom and tell her to hold that thought, its a good test to see if shes into you or if you;re wasting youre time

 

[Bvbidd]

If I'm at am party, drunk girls usually just jump me.

But if your with friends, just be the more agressive guy, verbally that is. She'll be drawn to the guy who's talking the most.