"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I am probably one of the maybe 12 Americans who knows of Dizzee Rascal. Maybe I need to give the album another listen, but I bought "Showtime" a few yeards back and I wasn't really that impressed. I like "The Streets" better.
 
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Never heard of him over here in Germany. Well, I don't listen to a lot of rap anyway
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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theunflushables said:
I am probably one of the maybe 12 Americans who knows of Dizzee Rascal. Maybe I need to give the album another listen, but I bought "Showtime" a few yeards back and I wasn't really that impressed. I like "The Streets" better.
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Yeah Showtime wasn't that great, his new album Maths And English is great, and his first one is pretty good too.
 
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This decade just hasn't been good for rap. Remember the 1980s or the 1990s? Rap was great. Now what do we have?

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