tr0ublemaker
Don Juan
think about all the serial rapists, pedophiles, murderers, and other threats to women out nowadays
they should be crazy and skeptical
they should be crazy and skeptical
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Ego ruins a lot in our society, so true, so true.... Everyone thinks they have something to show and prove.. And when people have something to prove, what's the root cause of that? I think it's deep internal insecurities.. Which gets back to the general idea of my original post, sorta.. Why is there so much of that here in the USA compared to other places? What internally in the brain of a European makes them content with an average car, but makes us Americans have to have the biggies to be satisfied... Deep stuff...ScrewIt said:To stray away from the discussion of survival and mixing gene pools, im going to go back to the OP topic.
Every country has flakey women. But id have to agree that america is more prone to having such women. I believe the reason for that is wealth, ego, and independence. In other such nations, not all women have the opportunity to be well off in her 20's solo. Ways are changing in foreign countries...even India (prearranged marriages arent required anymore), however they still try to keep their roots/traditions.
But with America, everything is about Ego, we flaunt bigness here...the biggest house, the biggest cars (hummer/trucks). In Europe and elsewhere, cars are fairly small and people appear to have no problem with that as long as it takes them where they need to be.
Our cultures and subcultures are so intermixed that we've lost our traditional ways, religion is also diminishing at a slow rate. there are more non-believers than believers.
A lot of Americans have lost their roots through commercialism, consumerism, materialism, and capitalism. Although there's that reason why people call this the land of opportunity.....the world is ever changing people.
Being a cop does have it's perks but it's not all quite as free as it may seem to outsiders.. We have to be careful of abusing the perks and careful of the decisions we make. If we dont we can very easily end up unemployed, in jail, or bankrupt ourselves.. If we drive 100mph with lights and sirens to meet the boys at Mr. Doughnut and end up hitting and killing somebody, well, it's off to the slammer we go.. Luckly I have never been sued (yet) but I have gone to court for people challenging my judgement on their DUIs, speeding tickets, etc, and you'd be surprised at some of these judges nowadays.. The cop isn't always the good guy in ther judge's eyes..ValleyDJing said:I guess every job has its perks. People who work at movie theatres get to go to free movies. Burger flippers get free burgers. Car salesmen get major discounts on their new Corvettes or whatever.
But honestly, police take the cake as far as getting the coolest perks. I mean, where else can you carry a gun, drive a hundred miles an hour, swear at people, and slap dumbasses around all day...legally? I can't wait to become one. (Not to mention chicks dig the guys in uniform)
Hey thanks for that compliment there... I personally don't make 60k but I know some guys who do. Still, not a field you want to get into if you want to get rich.. Many cops never see 60k in their entire carrer.. I used to be an IT geek and made over 60k but I took a heafty pay cut to become a cop after I decided that I just couldn't take 80 hours a week and man made machines b****ing at me like women anymore.. lolPlasticSurgeon said:I couldn't care if cops were nice or mean as long as scumbags and criminals with guns are kept off the street and out of my neighborhood. And for that, I am extremely grateful! They should pay you more. In my area of Long Island here Suffolk County police officers make over 60K a year. Well deserved too. I don't think cops make that much anywhere else though.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
.PlasticSurgeon said:Basically, the more variation there is in the gene pool, the better the odds are for evolution to happen. If monkeys mated with monkeys from the same family, they wind up having children that are exactly like themselves. That is pointless. Nature created recessive diseases to prevent this from happening. These diseases are 'hidden' in your DNA. You can't see that you have a trait for it, but one day you find your kids are all diseased and dead. Then you wonder..why? It's because you mated with people that were just like you, that had that same hidden disease gene. So how can you ensure that your kids don't die? You mate with someone COMPLETELY different from you, from a different far off family. Then you are GUARANTEED variation in your gene pool. It's these variable traits, that push organisms through evolution.
Interesting, does this relates to the attraction for foreings of the opposite sex?
Americans are not "fvcked up". Americans are in fact, some of the best and friendliest people in the world.logicallefty said:My theory is that Americans in general, especially women, are kinda fvcked up relative to other nationalities because we are just a bunch of multi-race MUTs...
totally agreedAmericans are not "fvcked up". Americans are in fact, some of the best and friendliest people in the world.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
DAMN! where are you again? My dad's pulling in 6 figures (although he's been at it awhile) and the cops round here are starting out at about 60k per year. I think I wanna go FBI, or maybe secret service. That would just be pimp to tell people. "Hey b.itch, I'm in the secret service" :rockon: just kidding.logicallefty said:Hey thanks for that compliment there... I personally don't make 60k but I know some guys who do. Still, not a field you want to get into if you want to get rich.. Many cops never see 60k in their entire carrer.. I used to be an IT geek and made over 60k but I took a heafty pay cut to become a cop after I decided that I just couldn't take 80 hours a week and man made machines b****ing at me like women anymore.. lol
ValleyDJing said:DAMN! where are you again? My dad's pulling in 6 figures (although he's been at it awhile) and the cops round here are starting out at about 60k per year. I think I wanna go FBI, or maybe secret service. That would just be pimp to tell people. "Hey b.itch, I'm in the secret service" :rockon: just kidding.
Cash said:This is the dumbest **** i've read in a long time. - If you're being serious.
And you americans are alright. Stay how you are. It's actually europe that's turning to shít and getting gayer and gayer by the second.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.