tr0ublemaker
Don Juan
think about all the serial rapists, pedophiles, murderers, and other threats to women out nowadays
they should be crazy and skeptical
they should be crazy and skeptical
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Ego ruins a lot in our society, so true, so true.... Everyone thinks they have something to show and prove.. And when people have something to prove, what's the root cause of that? I think it's deep internal insecurities.. Which gets back to the general idea of my original post, sorta.. Why is there so much of that here in the USA compared to other places? What internally in the brain of a European makes them content with an average car, but makes us Americans have to have the biggies to be satisfied... Deep stuff...ScrewIt said:To stray away from the discussion of survival and mixing gene pools, im going to go back to the OP topic.
Every country has flakey women. But id have to agree that america is more prone to having such women. I believe the reason for that is wealth, ego, and independence. In other such nations, not all women have the opportunity to be well off in her 20's solo. Ways are changing in foreign countries...even India (prearranged marriages arent required anymore), however they still try to keep their roots/traditions.
But with America, everything is about Ego, we flaunt bigness here...the biggest house, the biggest cars (hummer/trucks). In Europe and elsewhere, cars are fairly small and people appear to have no problem with that as long as it takes them where they need to be.
Our cultures and subcultures are so intermixed that we've lost our traditional ways, religion is also diminishing at a slow rate. there are more non-believers than believers.
A lot of Americans have lost their roots through commercialism, consumerism, materialism, and capitalism. Although there's that reason why people call this the land of opportunity.....the world is ever changing people.
Being a cop does have it's perks but it's not all quite as free as it may seem to outsiders.. We have to be careful of abusing the perks and careful of the decisions we make. If we dont we can very easily end up unemployed, in jail, or bankrupt ourselves.. If we drive 100mph with lights and sirens to meet the boys at Mr. Doughnut and end up hitting and killing somebody, well, it's off to the slammer we go.. Luckly I have never been sued (yet) but I have gone to court for people challenging my judgement on their DUIs, speeding tickets, etc, and you'd be surprised at some of these judges nowadays.. The cop isn't always the good guy in ther judge's eyes..ValleyDJing said:I guess every job has its perks. People who work at movie theatres get to go to free movies. Burger flippers get free burgers. Car salesmen get major discounts on their new Corvettes or whatever.
But honestly, police take the cake as far as getting the coolest perks. I mean, where else can you carry a gun, drive a hundred miles an hour, swear at people, and slap dumbasses around all day...legally? I can't wait to become one. (Not to mention chicks dig the guys in uniform)
Hey thanks for that compliment there... I personally don't make 60k but I know some guys who do. Still, not a field you want to get into if you want to get rich.. Many cops never see 60k in their entire carrer.. I used to be an IT geek and made over 60k but I took a heafty pay cut to become a cop after I decided that I just couldn't take 80 hours a week and man made machines b****ing at me like women anymore.. lolPlasticSurgeon said:I couldn't care if cops were nice or mean as long as scumbags and criminals with guns are kept off the street and out of my neighborhood. And for that, I am extremely grateful! They should pay you more. In my area of Long Island here Suffolk County police officers make over 60K a year. Well deserved too. I don't think cops make that much anywhere else though.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
.PlasticSurgeon said:Basically, the more variation there is in the gene pool, the better the odds are for evolution to happen. If monkeys mated with monkeys from the same family, they wind up having children that are exactly like themselves. That is pointless. Nature created recessive diseases to prevent this from happening. These diseases are 'hidden' in your DNA. You can't see that you have a trait for it, but one day you find your kids are all diseased and dead. Then you wonder..why? It's because you mated with people that were just like you, that had that same hidden disease gene. So how can you ensure that your kids don't die? You mate with someone COMPLETELY different from you, from a different far off family. Then you are GUARANTEED variation in your gene pool. It's these variable traits, that push organisms through evolution.
Interesting, does this relates to the attraction for foreings of the opposite sex?
Americans are not "fvcked up". Americans are in fact, some of the best and friendliest people in the world.logicallefty said:My theory is that Americans in general, especially women, are kinda fvcked up relative to other nationalities because we are just a bunch of multi-race MUTs...
totally agreedAmericans are not "fvcked up". Americans are in fact, some of the best and friendliest people in the world.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
DAMN! where are you again? My dad's pulling in 6 figures (although he's been at it awhile) and the cops round here are starting out at about 60k per year. I think I wanna go FBI, or maybe secret service. That would just be pimp to tell people. "Hey b.itch, I'm in the secret service" :rockon: just kidding.logicallefty said:Hey thanks for that compliment there... I personally don't make 60k but I know some guys who do. Still, not a field you want to get into if you want to get rich.. Many cops never see 60k in their entire carrer.. I used to be an IT geek and made over 60k but I took a heafty pay cut to become a cop after I decided that I just couldn't take 80 hours a week and man made machines b****ing at me like women anymore.. lol
ValleyDJing said:DAMN! where are you again? My dad's pulling in 6 figures (although he's been at it awhile) and the cops round here are starting out at about 60k per year. I think I wanna go FBI, or maybe secret service. That would just be pimp to tell people. "Hey b.itch, I'm in the secret service" :rockon: just kidding.
Cash said:This is the dumbest **** i've read in a long time. - If you're being serious.
And you americans are alright. Stay how you are. It's actually europe that's turning to shít and getting gayer and gayer by the second.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.