"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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American Males are best... for the wrong reasons

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So I'm reading articles on Askmen.com and I come up to the "Terminal Bachelorhood" article. There's a huge discussion going on about who's better off the bachlor or the married man. Of course the men defend the bachlor while the "Paris Hilton types" back the married man. I read all of the posts to find the best one...

"US males are great: I must admit, of all the males ive interacted with and had intimate friendships(throughout my life thus far, more than 2 digits) and relationships with (less than two digits), American Males by far have been the best! they are understanding, sympathetic, able to listen and able to address Critical quesitons dealing with flamed issues such as ones posted on even casual boards like these."

"also: in contrast the ones i have the worst experience with are "asians" (with exceptions to those who are actually more american)."

:crackup: Sorry I just found it funny how American women prefer AFC males to "jerk asians."
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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:cheer: We're number one! :cheer: We're number one! :cheer: We're number..... Heyyyyyyy...... :woo:
 

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PeterNorthisawesome said:
So I'm reading articles on Askmen.com and I come up to the "Terminal Bachelorhood" article. There's a huge discussion going on about who's better off the bachlor or the married man. Of course the men defend the bachlor while the "Paris Hilton types" back the married man. I read all of the posts to find the best one...

"US males are great: I must admit, of all the males ive interacted with and had intimate friendships(throughout my life thus far, more than 2 digits) and relationships with (less than two digits), American Males by far have been the best! they are understanding, sympathetic, able to listen and able to address Critical quesitons dealing with flamed issues such as ones posted on even casual boards like these."

"also: in contrast the ones i have the worst experience with are "asians" (with exceptions to those who are actually more american)."

:crackup: Sorry I just found it funny how American women prefer AFC males to "jerk asians."


You might as well order gay magazines to your house.. Seriously, stuff at askmen.com is politically incorrect.
 

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PeterNorthisawesome said:
"US males are great: I must admit, of all the males ive interacted with and had intimate friendships(throughout my life thus far, more than 2 digits) and relationships with (less than two digits), American Males by far have been the best! they are understanding, sympathetic, able to listen and able to address Critical quesitons dealing with flamed issues such as ones posted on even casual boards like these."

"also: in contrast the ones i have the worst experience with are "asians" (with exceptions to those who are actually more american)."
Uh, that is nothing to be proud about. American men are AFCs who treat women too damn good - which is why they are such f'd up spoiled brats. Of course they "love" us like this! :crackup: The question is not how good we are...but how good are THEY?

As far as Asian men - wonder why their women are so much better-behaved and society so much more stable than ours? Without so many Jerry Springer drunken single mom sloots dumping it down the chutes? Because they lay the law down more. Of course spoiled American brats hate that! Feminists hate having to live up to any standards of behavior in life and assuming any accountability or responsibility!
 

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wayword said:
Uh, that is nothing to be proud about. American men are AFCs who treat women too damn good - which is why they are such f'd up spoiled brats. Of course they "love" us like this! :crackup: The question is not how good we are...but how good are THEY?

As far as Asian men - wonder why their women are so much better-behaved and society so much more stable than ours? Without so many Jerry Springer drunken single mom sloots dumping it down the chutes? Because they lay the law down more. Of course spoiled American brats hate that! Feminists hate having to live up to any standards of behavior in life and assuming any accountability or responsibility!
Ditto
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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@ PeterNorthisAwesome

WTF?! Are you bi-sexual?
Uh... I don't know where you get that from. I was just wanted to discuss how american woman like US men being AFC and hate the normal DJ-like men. Askmen have some good articles too bad I don't care if YOU think it's gay.
 

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PeterNorthisawesome said:
"US males are great: I must admit, of all the males ive interacted with and had intimate friendships
Maybe I just took that wrong.
 

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American men are great, they'll pay for anything,..
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Rollo Tomassi said:
American men are great, they'll pay for anything,..
or expect little of anything.

I think that is the reason why American men Are considered to be the best to marry in the world!! I mean in other countries there is expectations of the wife to cook and clean and take care of the kids and do traditional marriage role. In The States I get that the attitude from the American male is:"hey she is hot and she is giving me plenty of sex therefore that is all I need and everything else will take care of itself" and then the American male wonders why his marriage goes down the crapper.
 
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The reason they say American men are great is because we marry hors and fat monsters - of course these fat hos love us........but not as much as they love strawberry cheesecake! :rolleyes:
 

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Last Man Standing said:
The reason they say American men are great is because we marry hors and fat monsters - of course these fat hos love us........but not as much as they love strawberry cheesecake! :rolleyes:
LOL! That made my day.
I know this fat h0 at work that loves strawberry cheesecake and complaining about how her ex bf buys her dinners so she will forgive him.
 

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Rollo Tomassi said:
American men are great, they'll pay for anything,..
...And feel good about it because they can.... :rolleyes:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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PeterNorthisawesome said:
I quoted that from american female posters on askmen... hence the QUOTATION MARKS.
Gotcha. Guess I just wasn't paying attention. My bad. lol!
 

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Last Man Standing said:
The reason they say American men are great is because we marry hors and fat monsters
Oh sh!t that was funny,..
 
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