"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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America seems like a fearfull country

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englishman

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Hi fellow dj's Im english living in canada and we get a lot of american t.v. american news seems to give the impression of a paranoid country beating on its chest, but behind it seems to be a country thats getting left behind as the majority of the world realises things have changed and gets on with things. Any one in the states see things that way?
p.s. im not usa bashing, I know a lot of cool americans, just curious as to how people see stuff down there?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Yeah. I agree. Although the media pumps us up with so much crap I dont watch News or TV much at all anymore. Its social programming. And yes we are also being 'left behind' most of the rest of the world pays alot more for gas and we just remain ignorant. I think most of europe is around $7 a gallon (correct me if Im wrong please). It seems also that more people know more about reality TV than their own rights and laws. Pretty sad really.
 

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Hi Brian, paradise with rain? where you at seattle?
 

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Hi Brian, paradise with rain? where you at seattle?
lol How'd you know? Nah Im just north of Seattle (Bellingham). Its a smaller city with every view you could possibly want, Mountains, Bay, Lake, Forest. Although the DJ scene here sucks.
 

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Yep Bellingham, bellisfare mall..lol...Im up here In Vancouver.. where its also beautifull and WET..never mind Im off to S.E.Asia on monday...........ahh...35 degrees Celsius
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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It's because we have a sh1tty leader who makes people fearful by acting like terrorism is the newest fad.
 

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hey, i'm english to, and am quite interested in working in canada.

Whats vancourver like? I always heard good things about it until the other day when someone said it looks good on the surface, but below that its not so nice....?

you prefer it to the uk?
 

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Well, seeing as I was born in Vancouver....

Upside:

Most temperamental climate in Canada
Beautiful place to live and visit
Lots of ethnic hotties
People are generally friendly
Pot is somewhat tolerated (I have seen people smoke a joint and have cops pass right by them)

Downside:
Rain, lots of it, especially in the fall and winter. This year we had a record 40 days of consecutive rainfall. Upside rebuttal: True it rains a lot but during the summer it is as dry as any other city.
Most expensive place to live in Canada. A fact that is only going to get worse as the 2010 Olympics approach. In order for a family to buy a house in Vancouver, they need to pull in at least 120k a year.
The reason pot is somewhat tolerated is because the police are going after the heroin and crack addicts in the city. Heroin is a huge problem in the city, and they are constantly trying to find ways to deal with it.

Point is there are always going to be a good and bad side to anywhere you live. If I could live and work in Vancouver, I would in a heartbeat but like I said, I was born there and have always considered it my home
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Not Quite There said:
hey, i'm english to, and am quite interested in working in canada.

Whats vancourver like? I always heard good things about it until the other day when someone said it looks good on the surface, but below that its not so nice....?

you prefer it to the uk?
Vancouvers pretty good, I agree with Doctormad, Ive said the same thing though, looks great when you get here but after a bit when you see what its all about, its not as good, the chicks here are knockout to look at but ive never been to a place where the women are such a pain in the ass, its a good job there good looking cause there personalities are fvcked..still theres some beautifull babes here from korea, japan, china etc... no body gives you any hassle, ive never seen a pub/bar fight in 10 years and only had one fight and that was the first month I moved here, unlike the U.K. where it was a weekly thing..so pretty laid back and all things considered I'd rather be here that over there..
 
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