"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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America seems like a fearfull country

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Hi fellow dj's Im english living in canada and we get a lot of american t.v. american news seems to give the impression of a paranoid country beating on its chest, but behind it seems to be a country thats getting left behind as the majority of the world realises things have changed and gets on with things. Any one in the states see things that way?
p.s. im not usa bashing, I know a lot of cool americans, just curious as to how people see stuff down there?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Yeah. I agree. Although the media pumps us up with so much crap I dont watch News or TV much at all anymore. Its social programming. And yes we are also being 'left behind' most of the rest of the world pays alot more for gas and we just remain ignorant. I think most of europe is around $7 a gallon (correct me if Im wrong please). It seems also that more people know more about reality TV than their own rights and laws. Pretty sad really.
 
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Hi Brian, paradise with rain? where you at seattle?
 
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Hi Brian, paradise with rain? where you at seattle?
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lol How'd you know? Nah Im just north of Seattle (Bellingham). Its a smaller city with every view you could possibly want, Mountains, Bay, Lake, Forest. Although the DJ scene here sucks.
 
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Yep Bellingham, bellisfare mall..lol...Im up here In Vancouver.. where its also beautifull and WET..never mind Im off to S.E.Asia on monday...........ahh...35 degrees Celsius
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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It's because we have a sh1tty leader who makes people fearful by acting like terrorism is the newest fad.
 
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hey, i'm english to, and am quite interested in working in canada.

Whats vancourver like? I always heard good things about it until the other day when someone said it looks good on the surface, but below that its not so nice....?

you prefer it to the uk?
 
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Well, seeing as I was born in Vancouver....

Upside:

Most temperamental climate in Canada
Beautiful place to live and visit
Lots of ethnic hotties
People are generally friendly
Pot is somewhat tolerated (I have seen people smoke a joint and have cops pass right by them)

Downside:
Rain, lots of it, especially in the fall and winter. This year we had a record 40 days of consecutive rainfall. Upside rebuttal: True it rains a lot but during the summer it is as dry as any other city.
Most expensive place to live in Canada. A fact that is only going to get worse as the 2010 Olympics approach. In order for a family to buy a house in Vancouver, they need to pull in at least 120k a year.
The reason pot is somewhat tolerated is because the police are going after the heroin and crack addicts in the city. Heroin is a huge problem in the city, and they are constantly trying to find ways to deal with it.

Point is there are always going to be a good and bad side to anywhere you live. If I could live and work in Vancouver, I would in a heartbeat but like I said, I was born there and have always considered it my home
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Not Quite There said:
hey, i'm english to, and am quite interested in working in canada.

Whats vancourver like? I always heard good things about it until the other day when someone said it looks good on the surface, but below that its not so nice....?

you prefer it to the uk?
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Vancouvers pretty good, I agree with Doctormad, Ive said the same thing though, looks great when you get here but after a bit when you see what its all about, its not as good, the chicks here are knockout to look at but ive never been to a place where the women are such a pain in the ass, its a good job there good looking cause there personalities are fvcked..still theres some beautifull babes here from korea, japan, china etc... no body gives you any hassle, ive never seen a pub/bar fight in 10 years and only had one fight and that was the first month I moved here, unlike the U.K. where it was a weekly thing..so pretty laid back and all things considered I'd rather be here that over there..
 
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