"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Ambiguous "Abundance"

ChristopherColumbus

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Also, this stuff is not a theoretical science... it is a practical one! When you are stuck in a theoretical frame of mind, you will see things in terms of either/ or. When you see things practically, you'll see them in terms of process and practice.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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SuckItUp

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Problem is most talk about it but aren't about it. Most want the shortcut. The easy way to "abundance" without actually doing the improvements on themselves.

You cannot tell someone just "believe bro" and know nothing else about them. Its like someone coming to a mechanic for a problem and him telling the person instead of finding their problem with the car: You can drive any car you want bro. Just drive the car.
Sure, if anyone thinks that confidence or abundance can just be had by belief then they are sadly mistaken. It takes time, insight, failure, etc. Not to mention that everyone starts at a different starting point and people have different goals and limiting beliefs.

I don't think anyone is advocating that belief alone will get someone there, but it is a starting point that someone can build from. Just like you need a starting point to begin working out the gym with an end goal in mind.
 
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