"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ambiguous "Abundance"

ChristopherColumbus

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Also, this stuff is not a theoretical science... it is a practical one! When you are stuck in a theoretical frame of mind, you will see things in terms of either/ or. When you see things practically, you'll see them in terms of process and practice.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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SuckItUp

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Problem is most talk about it but aren't about it. Most want the shortcut. The easy way to "abundance" without actually doing the improvements on themselves.

You cannot tell someone just "believe bro" and know nothing else about them. Its like someone coming to a mechanic for a problem and him telling the person instead of finding their problem with the car: You can drive any car you want bro. Just drive the car.
Sure, if anyone thinks that confidence or abundance can just be had by belief then they are sadly mistaken. It takes time, insight, failure, etc. Not to mention that everyone starts at a different starting point and people have different goals and limiting beliefs.

I don't think anyone is advocating that belief alone will get someone there, but it is a starting point that someone can build from. Just like you need a starting point to begin working out the gym with an end goal in mind.
 
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