"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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AMAZING sexual body language example

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So the other day I was watching Mr and Mrs Smith and saw probably the best example of sexual body language I've ever seen. If you have this movie watch the beginning scene, when Brad and Angelina first meet.

Literally everything about Brad's character is sexual. From the way he leans against the bar to the way he slowly sets his glass down and turns around. As he approaches Angelina he thrusts his hips out, projecting his crotch. The expression on his face the entire time is smooth and calm, giving away no emotion. The way he wears his clothes only add to the communication, showing no real worry about showing off his lower stomach, and his shirt seeming to split and drape his crotch. If you get a chance watch this movie and really pay attention to this scene, I know there are all kinds of little things that I missed.

Regardless, I watched the movie last week and the day after my buddy had a party at his place. So that night I got in the right mindset and tried to emulate Brad's body language (same expression and walk for the most part) and got some awesome responses. I consider myself good looking for the most part, but I have a pretty general idea of how girls react to me and act around me. Long story short, I had three girls (a 6 and two 8's)two of which who approached me, try to protect me from a weird girl by trying to fake be my girlfriend, hanging all over me, whispering in my ear, ect. Two of them left, so I got their numbers before they took off, and the third girl, who I already knew a little bit stuck around. I didn't talk to her any differently than normal, just different body language, and the entire night she called me bad news and kept pinching my ass and hitting on me, something she's never done remotely close to as much as she did. The responses I got from girls were unbelievable and the only change in my personality was wearing the sexual body language well.

Try this guys, if you present yourself as a sexual guy and have the mindset that says you are a sexy and sexual guy you will not believe the responses, I'm still amazed...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Good stuff. I'm building a list of films I need to see and watch again to get cues for BL and smokin' attitude.
 

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BTW thats a movie HOLLYWOOD. It may give you some ideas about attitude but dont expect it to work just because brad pitt did it in a movie. And remember he had a script and 40 cuts to get the scene just right. You dont get a script and you only get one shot.
 

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Brad pitt in Fight Club and any of the ocean's 11,12,13 Basically just a bunch of suave dudes ****ing talking to each other watch theire body language and you will see what i mean.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Charm said:
BTW thats a movie HOLLYWOOD. It may give you some ideas about attitude but dont expect it to work just because brad pitt did it in a movie. And remember he had a script and 40 cuts to get the scene just right. You dont get a script and you only get one shot.
BTW he said he field-tested it and got good results. So unless you've done the same kind of empirical testing, don't sit there and be an armchair DJ.
 
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Boschy said:
Good stuff. I'm building a list of films I need to see and watch again to get cues for BL and smokin' attitude.
hey boschy I'd like to check out that list.
 

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squirrels said:
BTW he said he field-tested it and got good results. So unless you've done the same kind of empirical testing, don't sit there and be an armchair DJ.
They call me the Godfvcker.
 

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Still working on the list. Has the usual suspects like TOP GUN. I'm basically watching macho/blokey movies again with an eye to DJing, then I'll post the list in a thread.

An example is CASINO ROYALE (2006). Watch Craig carefully to see how he affects an air of confidence and silky smooth suaveness. This performance is a bit more contemporary and modern than the older Bonds. His first scene with Vesper on the train is a classic, and it's purely dialogue apart from hand movements and eye flicks. Actually any scene he has with her is pure gold.

Her: "Am I going to have a problem with you, Bond?"
Bond: "No, you needn't worry. You're not my type."
Her: "Smart?"
Bond: "Single."
 
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