"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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AMAZING sexual body language example

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So the other day I was watching Mr and Mrs Smith and saw probably the best example of sexual body language I've ever seen. If you have this movie watch the beginning scene, when Brad and Angelina first meet.

Literally everything about Brad's character is sexual. From the way he leans against the bar to the way he slowly sets his glass down and turns around. As he approaches Angelina he thrusts his hips out, projecting his crotch. The expression on his face the entire time is smooth and calm, giving away no emotion. The way he wears his clothes only add to the communication, showing no real worry about showing off his lower stomach, and his shirt seeming to split and drape his crotch. If you get a chance watch this movie and really pay attention to this scene, I know there are all kinds of little things that I missed.

Regardless, I watched the movie last week and the day after my buddy had a party at his place. So that night I got in the right mindset and tried to emulate Brad's body language (same expression and walk for the most part) and got some awesome responses. I consider myself good looking for the most part, but I have a pretty general idea of how girls react to me and act around me. Long story short, I had three girls (a 6 and two 8's)two of which who approached me, try to protect me from a weird girl by trying to fake be my girlfriend, hanging all over me, whispering in my ear, ect. Two of them left, so I got their numbers before they took off, and the third girl, who I already knew a little bit stuck around. I didn't talk to her any differently than normal, just different body language, and the entire night she called me bad news and kept pinching my ass and hitting on me, something she's never done remotely close to as much as she did. The responses I got from girls were unbelievable and the only change in my personality was wearing the sexual body language well.

Try this guys, if you present yourself as a sexual guy and have the mindset that says you are a sexy and sexual guy you will not believe the responses, I'm still amazed...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Good stuff. I'm building a list of films I need to see and watch again to get cues for BL and smokin' attitude.
 

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BTW thats a movie HOLLYWOOD. It may give you some ideas about attitude but dont expect it to work just because brad pitt did it in a movie. And remember he had a script and 40 cuts to get the scene just right. You dont get a script and you only get one shot.
 

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Brad pitt in Fight Club and any of the ocean's 11,12,13 Basically just a bunch of suave dudes ****ing talking to each other watch theire body language and you will see what i mean.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Charm said:
BTW thats a movie HOLLYWOOD. It may give you some ideas about attitude but dont expect it to work just because brad pitt did it in a movie. And remember he had a script and 40 cuts to get the scene just right. You dont get a script and you only get one shot.
BTW he said he field-tested it and got good results. So unless you've done the same kind of empirical testing, don't sit there and be an armchair DJ.
 
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Boschy said:
Good stuff. I'm building a list of films I need to see and watch again to get cues for BL and smokin' attitude.
hey boschy I'd like to check out that list.
 

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squirrels said:
BTW he said he field-tested it and got good results. So unless you've done the same kind of empirical testing, don't sit there and be an armchair DJ.
They call me the Godfvcker.
 

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Still working on the list. Has the usual suspects like TOP GUN. I'm basically watching macho/blokey movies again with an eye to DJing, then I'll post the list in a thread.

An example is CASINO ROYALE (2006). Watch Craig carefully to see how he affects an air of confidence and silky smooth suaveness. This performance is a bit more contemporary and modern than the older Bonds. His first scene with Vesper on the train is a classic, and it's purely dialogue apart from hand movements and eye flicks. Actually any scene he has with her is pure gold.

Her: "Am I going to have a problem with you, Bond?"
Bond: "No, you needn't worry. You're not my type."
Her: "Smart?"
Bond: "Single."
 
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