"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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7/10 women on bumble in mid 20s are looking for 10/10 men

your experience is worthless. Females play dating game on retarded easy mode
The definition of insanity is displayed in your every post.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Thats the point everyone is making here Neal. I mean Dave. lol.

You have a ego as strong as 1/64" glass. Stay off of OLD because if you arent in the top 5% you arent getting any action. OLD is one sided. The chicks who are 5's think they can get 8's simply because the 8's just want them for a piece of @ss here and there and they dont understand that the guy who is an 8 is never going to be seen in public with them. Its all smoke and mirrors yet the chicks on there are overvaluing themselves.

Is this that hard to comprehend? This forum is littered with OLD threads. Go away and read some more. Check back in another month.


I'm a 7 to 8 in real life dude
 

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100% sold that Big Dave is Big Neal.

I wonder if he is still getting cucked by the 19 year olds that are pale looking models that he believes actually want him in his fantasy world?
I thought bigneil was the dude who only dates strippers?
 

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No one here thinks cold approach is easy.

As a female I WISH men would cold airsick more often - at least TRY to small talk to feel it out

lots of people here make it seem like its easy

in reality, the difficulty curve is insane...especially considering most random women aren't even in market. Saying its incredibly hard is a huge understatement

i make friends everywhere I go and I never meet women through friends either.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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7/10 women on bumble in mid 20s are looking for 10/10 men

your experience is worthless. Females play dating game on retarded easy mode
You are just looking for ways to NOT try and then complain about everything

I had an OLD guy ask me the other night if I was doing OLD looking to disqualify. (He had some not impressive custody decisions under his belt)

It was an interesting question, one that I had to sit back and assess.

That's what you are doing Dave, you are looking to immediately disqualify everyone (females and sosuavers) instead of giving them a chance

Have fun being single forever
 

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Dave's bio on OLD:

I am an Armenian God that was born in Armenia, but my parents brought me to Chicago against my will. I am not stuck here with you women who are all beneath me. I am a high end car salesman who makes a good living. I am very social and have a large group of friends. I like to talk about how great I am to everyone I meet and they all agree that I am God's gift to the world. You will be lucky to land a great guy like me. IF I message you and IF I reply to your response, I MAY invite you out to a wonderful time talking about how great I really am; which you must agree.

I am looking for a woman who's between 25 - 29; though, I'd prefer if you'd be closer to 25. You have to be in shape with a rocking body. I'd prefer less than 7% body fat, as I am the same. No kids (of course). Prefer a woman with an Armenian, Eastern European background, but may consider a latin or even a white woman if I must. Absolutely not black women, unless you have light skin and can pass as a latin or Armenian woman. You must have a good job and a college degree, but an advanced degree would be preferred.

Come on women. Here's your chance to get a 10/10 man who has the looks, money, status and prestige that you have been looking for. Oh, I love cheese cake. That sh!t is da bomb!

Dave, if your profile is anything like above (satire), please take it down.
 

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No offense but amantes OLD profile narrative wouldn't work for you. The narrative doesn't match the picture you present here. I'm wondering if the same is happening with Dave.
his profile is super simple fluffy stuff. It works for everyone

women barely read profiles anyways. Its all about pics
 

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Possibly. I’m not offended at all. I’m just not buying all this.
I have plenty of pictures. That one is from a mancamp on the north slope of Alaska. I do have nice suits. Lol
I look good in one.
Again, I wasn't looking to sleight you but I see you got butthurt anyways. Typical
 

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no matter how much I looksmax, I'll never be above a 7.5 to 8...which sounds like is not enough

So all you guys are recommending to me is to completely give up
No, it's to just not take it personally and get with the game. Anything worthwhile is competitive and tough. Don't give up. Don't quit. But, on the other hand, not piss and moan that all women are sluts, *****s, unfair, etc. While, in general, that may be true for a lot of them, it's not all.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Dave's bio on OLD:

I am an Armenian God that was born in Armenia, but my parents brought me to Chicago against my will. I am not stuck here with you women who are all beneath me. I am a high end car salesman who makes a good living. I am very social and have a large group of friends. I like to talk about how great I am to everyone I meet and they all agree that I am God's gift to the world. You will be lucky to land a great guy like me. IF I message you and IF I reply to your response, I MAY invite you out to a wonderful time talking about how great I really am; which you must agree.

I am looking for a woman who's between 25 - 29; though, I'd prefer if you'd be closer to 25. You have to be in shape with a rocking body. I'd prefer less than 7% body fat, as I am the same. No kids (of course). Prefer a woman with an Armenian, Eastern European background, but may consider a latin or even a white woman if I must. Absolutely not black women, unless you have light skin and can pass as a latin or Armenian woman. You must have a good job and a college degree, but an advanced degree would be preferred.

Come on women. Here's your chance to get a 10/10 man who has the looks, money, status and prestige that you have been looking for. Oh, I love cheese cake. That sh!t is da bomb!

Dave, if your profile is anything like above (satire), please take it down.
dude I copied Amantes profile and changed like 2 words. It's nothing like that

I would never interact with anybody like that in real life anyways
 

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I thought bigneil was the dude who only dates strippers?
I believe he referred to them as "models" lol. They were all pasty looking and had no boobs. But you are correct. I think most of them, if not all of them were strippers.

Poor Neal. He never could understand that he was being used and cucked (that is if he was even sleeping with them....the majority he just chased). Once they had no use for him or he projected his "love" for them, they disappeared.

At one point I remember him taking the one stripper off on some vacation even after she started sleeping with another dude. Such a cuck. Not sure how he ever thought that he had an alpha mindset.
 

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lots of people here make it seem like its easy

in reality, the difficulty curve is insane...especially considering most random women aren't even in market. Saying its incredibly hard is a huge understatement

i make friends everywhere I go and I never meet women through friends either.
Lots of ppl here put e time into it, time that you refuse to invest. So, of course, it's easier for them.
 

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You are just looking for ways to NOT try and then complain about everything

I had an OLD guy ask me the other night if I was doing OLD looking to disqualify. (He had some not impressive custody decisions under his belt)

It was an interesting question, one that I had to sit back and assess.

That's what you are doing Dave, you are looking to immediately disqualify everyone (females and sosuavers) instead of giving them a chance

Have fun being single forever

I tried bumble once and got zero matches

I'm sure it would be same sh*t now even as I have that good pic and was rated 85 to 90 for all 3 areas on photofeeler...

women on dating sites are absolutely ridiculous
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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dude I copied Amantes profile and changed like 2 words. It's nothing like that

I would never interact with anybody like that in real life anyways
You have to work on that sense of humor of yours. @Amante Silvestre's tip was to use it as a guide and customize it to your own life. How many other men do you think found that thread and just cut and pasted it? Come on bro.
 

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Lots of ppl here put e time into it, time that you refuse to invest. So, of course, it's easier for them.
Because he is lazy. He is wanting the quick fix. There is no quick fix.

People should just stop responding to his stuff altogether. Its pointless.
 

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I tried bumble once and got zero matches

I'm sure it would be same sh*t now even as I have that good pic and was rated 90 for all 3 areas on photofeeler...
That's not possible. You're doing something wrong in the settings then. You're lost, not ugly.
 

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You have to work on that sense of humor of yours. @Amante Silvestre's tip was to use it as a guide and customize it to your own life. How many other men do you think found that thread and just cut and pasted it? Come on bro.

he told me to use it almost verbatim cause he carefully constructed it. too many changes and it loses its effectiveness
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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