Am in this highschool in my town,..and i've been very serious and unsocial and always with my buddies,..never really socialised with girls in the whole of last year when i joined till now..The good or bad part is that,girls know much about me,and they talk about me alot because i used to date hot girls in town before joining this school.But some personal family stuff happened and really affected me and i stopped dating and lost my sexual appetite and started pushing away every opportunity of socializing as kauzu which means a serious person who has no time with anyone,..hope you get the picture..And i wanna get out of this situation,regain my sexual appetite and get girls like how i used to,.any ideas?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
LearningSlowly
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Use every chance you get to get out of your house and be with people. Be happy every time you get to have that opportunity. Sometimes you'll have to make the opportunities yourself.
Go be with people, that's all it takes.
Go be with people, that's all it takes.
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Increase your testosterone:
Stop masturbating
Eat 4 brazil nuts a day
Eat better - Including increased intake of saturated fats and cholesterol (not much HDL).
WORK OUT
Sleep more
Take cold showers, especially in the morning. Im talking NO hot water.
meditate.
If you really want this, then do everything above.
Increase your testosterone:
Stop masturbating
Eat 4 brazil nuts a day
Eat better - Including increased intake of saturated fats and cholesterol (not much HDL).
WORK OUT
Sleep more
Take cold showers, especially in the morning. Im talking NO hot water.
meditate.
If you really want this, then do everything above.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
LearningSlowly
Master Don Juan
Good advice but what's this?? Increased intake of saturated fats? And HDL is good cholesterol, LDL is bad.NorwegianDJ said:Eat better - Including increased intake of saturated fats and cholesterol (not much HDL).
NorwegianDJ
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Im sorry that your information is incorrect and known widely due to capitalist benefits from it. Saturated fat is needed for testosterone production. Prove me its unhealthy. Do it.LearningSlowly said:Good advice but what's this?? Increased intake of saturated fats? And HDL is good cholesterol, LDL is bad.
And you're right, HDL is the good one, typo.
LearningSlowly
Master Don Juan
I wasn't that adamant about being right on the saturated fat point, but yes, the initial google search backs you up.NorwegianDJ said:Im sorry that your information is incorrect and known widely due to capitalist benefits from it. Saturated fat is needed for testosterone production. Prove me its unhealthy. Do it.
novaknight
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Why Cold showers?NorwegianDJ said:Check my signature.
Increase your testosterone:
Stop masturbating
Eat 4 brazil nuts a day
Eat better - Including increased intake of saturated fats and cholesterol (not much HDL).
WORK OUT
Sleep more
Take cold showers, especially in the morning. Im talking NO hot water.
meditate.
If you really want this, then do everything above.
NorwegianDJ
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Just try it. Trust me.novaknight said:Why Cold showers?
It actually does increase fat burning and testosterone levels if you wanna look into it.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I dont think if my testosterone level is a problem cause i do get horny,and when i do,i got this good hot girl i can bang anytime,..and i am good with girls,..the problem since all that family stuft happened to me is ...gaming other girls,.whenever am alone or with ma friends,i'll be very eager to game girls and even tell ma friends the girl I wanna game,.but when the girls around me,.everything just evaporates and suddenly my desire of gaming them is gone!!..
NorwegianDJ
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please try the above and stop complaining. Its either a problem with your attitude/confidence, or with your hormones. Give them a shot. I really do not respect people that dont take advice when they ask for it.
novaknight
Senior Don Juan
Lets do this.NorwegianDJ said:Just try it. Trust me.
It actually does increase fat burning and testosterone levels if you wanna look into it.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
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Sweeeeeeeet.
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So did you do all of the ones NDJ listed?
Not all.
masturbation-honestly,since i started being weird around girls,.i started masturbating,..and it really affects the way you act around peaple to some level,.since i stopped,i feel way better all the time
Nuts-i used to hate them,.but my dad usually buys alot of them,hel loves them...so since norwegiandj suggested,.i started taking them in the mornin during breakfast and before i sleep.Am sure it helped?
-I started playing football again,working out and sleep more
masturbation-honestly,since i started being weird around girls,.i started masturbating,..and it really affects the way you act around peaple to some level,.since i stopped,i feel way better all the time
Nuts-i used to hate them,.but my dad usually buys alot of them,hel loves them...so since norwegiandj suggested,.i started taking them in the mornin during breakfast and before i sleep.Am sure it helped?
-I started playing football again,working out and sleep more
as soon as i thought i was back in the game,got my confidence back,banging girl,going out more,and having a good time.But,I ****ed up today,..hesitation is a game killer.
Was waiting for my girlfriend in a restaurant and a very gorgeous girl walked in and she sat on a table infront of mine while facing me,she was obviously waitin for her date.I then started giving myself excuses to not approach her(what if her guy comes in,what if my girl comes in,what if blah blah) until my girl came in about 5 minutes.Soon,her guys comes in.The guy was so afc,i could tell it was their first date cause the girl was so bored,and was cheking me out everytime.I just missed on this one.what the ****?
Was waiting for my girlfriend in a restaurant and a very gorgeous girl walked in and she sat on a table infront of mine while facing me,she was obviously waitin for her date.I then started giving myself excuses to not approach her(what if her guy comes in,what if my girl comes in,what if blah blah) until my girl came in about 5 minutes.Soon,her guys comes in.The guy was so afc,i could tell it was their first date cause the girl was so bored,and was cheking me out everytime.I just missed on this one.what the ****?