Am in this highschool in my town,..and i've been very serious and unsocial and always with my buddies,..never really socialised with girls in the whole of last year when i joined till now..The good or bad part is that,girls know much about me,and they talk about me alot because i used to date hot girls in town before joining this school.But some personal family stuff happened and really affected me and i stopped dating and lost my sexual appetite and started pushing away every opportunity of socializing as kauzu which means a serious person who has no time with anyone,..hope you get the picture..And i wanna get out of this situation,regain my sexual appetite and get girls like how i used to,.any ideas?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
LearningSlowly
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Use every chance you get to get out of your house and be with people. Be happy every time you get to have that opportunity. Sometimes you'll have to make the opportunities yourself.
Go be with people, that's all it takes.
Go be with people, that's all it takes.
NorwegianDJ
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Increase your testosterone:
Stop masturbating
Eat 4 brazil nuts a day
Eat better - Including increased intake of saturated fats and cholesterol (not much HDL).
WORK OUT
Sleep more
Take cold showers, especially in the morning. Im talking NO hot water.
meditate.
If you really want this, then do everything above.
Increase your testosterone:
Stop masturbating
Eat 4 brazil nuts a day
Eat better - Including increased intake of saturated fats and cholesterol (not much HDL).
WORK OUT
Sleep more
Take cold showers, especially in the morning. Im talking NO hot water.
meditate.
If you really want this, then do everything above.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
LearningSlowly
Master Don Juan
Good advice but what's this?? Increased intake of saturated fats? And HDL is good cholesterol, LDL is bad.NorwegianDJ said:Eat better - Including increased intake of saturated fats and cholesterol (not much HDL).
NorwegianDJ
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Im sorry that your information is incorrect and known widely due to capitalist benefits from it. Saturated fat is needed for testosterone production. Prove me its unhealthy. Do it.LearningSlowly said:Good advice but what's this?? Increased intake of saturated fats? And HDL is good cholesterol, LDL is bad.
And you're right, HDL is the good one, typo.
LearningSlowly
Master Don Juan
I wasn't that adamant about being right on the saturated fat point, but yes, the initial google search backs you up.NorwegianDJ said:Im sorry that your information is incorrect and known widely due to capitalist benefits from it. Saturated fat is needed for testosterone production. Prove me its unhealthy. Do it.
novaknight
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Why Cold showers?NorwegianDJ said:Check my signature.
Increase your testosterone:
Stop masturbating
Eat 4 brazil nuts a day
Eat better - Including increased intake of saturated fats and cholesterol (not much HDL).
WORK OUT
Sleep more
Take cold showers, especially in the morning. Im talking NO hot water.
meditate.
If you really want this, then do everything above.
NorwegianDJ
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Just try it. Trust me.novaknight said:Why Cold showers?
It actually does increase fat burning and testosterone levels if you wanna look into it.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I dont think if my testosterone level is a problem cause i do get horny,and when i do,i got this good hot girl i can bang anytime,..and i am good with girls,..the problem since all that family stuft happened to me is ...gaming other girls,.whenever am alone or with ma friends,i'll be very eager to game girls and even tell ma friends the girl I wanna game,.but when the girls around me,.everything just evaporates and suddenly my desire of gaming them is gone!!..
NorwegianDJ
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please try the above and stop complaining. Its either a problem with your attitude/confidence, or with your hormones. Give them a shot. I really do not respect people that dont take advice when they ask for it.
novaknight
Senior Don Juan
Lets do this.NorwegianDJ said:Just try it. Trust me.
It actually does increase fat burning and testosterone levels if you wanna look into it.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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Sweeeeeeeet.
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So did you do all of the ones NDJ listed?
Not all.
masturbation-honestly,since i started being weird around girls,.i started masturbating,..and it really affects the way you act around peaple to some level,.since i stopped,i feel way better all the time
Nuts-i used to hate them,.but my dad usually buys alot of them,hel loves them...so since norwegiandj suggested,.i started taking them in the mornin during breakfast and before i sleep.Am sure it helped?
-I started playing football again,working out and sleep more
masturbation-honestly,since i started being weird around girls,.i started masturbating,..and it really affects the way you act around peaple to some level,.since i stopped,i feel way better all the time
Nuts-i used to hate them,.but my dad usually buys alot of them,hel loves them...so since norwegiandj suggested,.i started taking them in the mornin during breakfast and before i sleep.Am sure it helped?
-I started playing football again,working out and sleep more
as soon as i thought i was back in the game,got my confidence back,banging girl,going out more,and having a good time.But,I ****ed up today,..hesitation is a game killer.
Was waiting for my girlfriend in a restaurant and a very gorgeous girl walked in and she sat on a table infront of mine while facing me,she was obviously waitin for her date.I then started giving myself excuses to not approach her(what if her guy comes in,what if my girl comes in,what if blah blah) until my girl came in about 5 minutes.Soon,her guys comes in.The guy was so afc,i could tell it was their first date cause the girl was so bored,and was cheking me out everytime.I just missed on this one.what the ****?
Was waiting for my girlfriend in a restaurant and a very gorgeous girl walked in and she sat on a table infront of mine while facing me,she was obviously waitin for her date.I then started giving myself excuses to not approach her(what if her guy comes in,what if my girl comes in,what if blah blah) until my girl came in about 5 minutes.Soon,her guys comes in.The guy was so afc,i could tell it was their first date cause the girl was so bored,and was cheking me out everytime.I just missed on this one.what the ****?