"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Am I wrong?

lurker73

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Today I saw a group of Latina teenagers, and there was this one girl who was stunning, definitely a woman, but very young (probably 14 or 15). She was pawing at her hair and smiling and giving me all the signals, and I was checking her out as well, but I felt this incredible sense of guilt, like I was a pedophile for even being attracted to her.

Was I wrong to notice her? There is nothing more attractive to me than a young, innocent virgin. I like grown women too, but I am attracted to teenage girls as well.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Stagger Lee

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Of course it's not wrong to be attracted to a female that has entered sexual maturity. It's not like she was prepubescent. Females of that age married older men for most of human history.

What's creepy is how nowadays young 20's year-old guys hit up even 40 and 50 year old near menopausal women online lol. That and gays. But modern society now say that's acceptable, but males being attracted to young fertile females isn't.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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foreverAFC

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as long as she looks like a woman its fine to find her attractive

talking to her would be creepy
 

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foreverAFC said:
as long as she looks like a woman its fine to find her attractive

talking to her would be creepy
True. Anything more than a quick glance leading up to attempting to speak to her would be a no no
 

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It was just a couple of quick inconspicuous glances. Though to a girl what men think are inconspicuous signs are often very conspicous.

Of course I didn't hit on her.


Stagger Lee said:
Of course it's not wrong to be attracted to a female that has entered sexual maturity. It's not like she was prepubescent. Females of that age married older men for most of human history.

What's creepy is how nowadays young 20's year-old guys hit up even 40 and 50 year old near menopausal women online lol. That and gays. But modern society now say that's acceptable, but males being attracted to young fertile females isn't.
That's exactly the way I feel about it. Villify me all you want, but if she's developed as a woman, even if she's young, I shouldn't be blamed for finding her attractive.
 

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I'm in my early 20s too, so it's not like I'm some 50 year old dude leering or something.
 
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