Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Am I wrong?

lurker73

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Today I saw a group of Latina teenagers, and there was this one girl who was stunning, definitely a woman, but very young (probably 14 or 15). She was pawing at her hair and smiling and giving me all the signals, and I was checking her out as well, but I felt this incredible sense of guilt, like I was a pedophile for even being attracted to her.

Was I wrong to notice her? There is nothing more attractive to me than a young, innocent virgin. I like grown women too, but I am attracted to teenage girls as well.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Of course it's not wrong to be attracted to a female that has entered sexual maturity. It's not like she was prepubescent. Females of that age married older men for most of human history.

What's creepy is how nowadays young 20's year-old guys hit up even 40 and 50 year old near menopausal women online lol. That and gays. But modern society now say that's acceptable, but males being attracted to young fertile females isn't.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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foreverAFC

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as long as she looks like a woman its fine to find her attractive

talking to her would be creepy
 

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foreverAFC said:
as long as she looks like a woman its fine to find her attractive

talking to her would be creepy
True. Anything more than a quick glance leading up to attempting to speak to her would be a no no
 

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It was just a couple of quick inconspicuous glances. Though to a girl what men think are inconspicuous signs are often very conspicous.

Of course I didn't hit on her.


Stagger Lee said:
Of course it's not wrong to be attracted to a female that has entered sexual maturity. It's not like she was prepubescent. Females of that age married older men for most of human history.

What's creepy is how nowadays young 20's year-old guys hit up even 40 and 50 year old near menopausal women online lol. That and gays. But modern society now say that's acceptable, but males being attracted to young fertile females isn't.
That's exactly the way I feel about it. Villify me all you want, but if she's developed as a woman, even if she's young, I shouldn't be blamed for finding her attractive.
 

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I'm in my early 20s too, so it's not like I'm some 50 year old dude leering or something.
 
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