"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Am i wrong for talking to her even though she has a man?

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Now i dont know what to feel in this situation, this gurl has a BF for 2 months or so now, but she made a comment the other day to one of my friends, she told him that she is into me and thinks im cute....

Now i liked her the first time i saw her, but i didnt take it to the head i just looked at it as a "She is fine id fuk her" and thats it, never tried to hit on her or nothing, it was until i found out that she digged me too that i started making some moves on her.

We text each other and we talked on the phone one time too(although it will be more often now, since the ice is broken basicly)

Now i know that she is interested in me and i am in her, but she has a man, and although she do, she keeps making comments about me daily like when my friends mention my name she goes like "Ummm bfl...." or " tell sexy ass bfl to call me" " did bfl get my text" bfl this bfl that and it keeps going.

I dont know how to handle this situaiton here since she has a man...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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are they getting married? do remember though that if she does start hooking up with you and stays with the other dude, she is just as likeley to do that to you in the future if you become "her man."
 
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yeh i know , i just want to be fukbuddies to be honest with you.
 
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unless she breaks up with him to actually fu*k you, then in that case you can date her. cuz maybe you'll be the man that holds her down
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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It is a hors decision to cheat on or leave there current bf. Either be the next guy to f**k her or some one else will!
 
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ALL girls will cheat with the RIGHT guy at the RIGHT time.

I mean, if your most favorite, beautiful Playboy bunnies knocked on your door and said they want to fu ck you with not strings attached you are going to say YES. I don't care if you're married, in love, or in a 10 year relationship- it's a fact of life unless you're gay.

Now, if a girl meets her most PERFECT man, her Prince Charming that fulfills those deep, but unspoken needs in her, then yes, she too will cheat just like a man would. She wants HER Prince Charming to come knocking on the door to whisk her away for a night of unrivaled, bed breaking sex. That too is a fact of life.

The idea is to be of such high value that girls see YOU as Mr. Stud or Mr. Right so that they A) want you over anyone else and B) not cheat on you since there will never be another stud like you knocking on her door.
 
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Originally posted by bfl
Now i dont know what to feel in this situation, this gurl has a BF for 2 months or so now, but she made a comment the other day to one of my friends, she told him that she is into me and thinks im cute....

Now i liked her the first time i saw her, but i didnt take it to the head i just looked at it as a "She is fine id fuk her" and thats it, never tried to hit on her or nothing, it was until i found out that she digged me too that i started making some moves on her.

We text each other and we talked on the phone one time too(although it will be more often now, since the ice is broken basicly)

Now i know that she is interested in me and i am in her, but she has a man, and although she do, she keeps making comments about me daily like when my friends mention my name she goes like "Ummm bfl...." or " tell sexy ass bfl to call me" " did bfl get my text" bfl this bfl that and it keeps going.

I dont know how to handle this situaiton here since she has a man...
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If you dont mind sucking second hand d**k, or tasting his man juice when you kiss her/go down on her, and you dont mind that another man is pleasuring her anally at night, hey, you go guy!
 
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Originally posted by JT47319
ALL girls will cheat with the RIGHT guy at the RIGHT time.

I mean, if your most favorite, beautiful Playboy bunnies knocked on your door and said they want to fu ck you with not strings attached you are going to say YES. I don't care if you're married, in love, or in a 10 year relationship- it's a fact of life unless you're gay.

Now, if a girl meets her most PERFECT man, her Prince Charming that fulfills those deep, but unspoken needs in her, then yes, she too will cheat just like a man would. She wants HER Prince Charming to come knocking on the door to whisk her away for a night of unrivaled, bed breaking sex. That too is a fact of life.

The idea is to be of such high value that girls see YOU as Mr. Stud or Mr. Right so that they A) want you over anyone else and B) not cheat on you since there will never be another stud like you knocking on her door.
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Riiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiight :rolleyes:
 
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bfl->

Dont listen to all the hate man, this sh** is typical of all women. Most hot ones are going to have a boyfriend when you meet them unless theres something screwy withem. She just wants to make sure youre in pocket before she dumps her man. Shes chosen you as his replacement-> and thats alot better than being some bi***s rebound after a breakup when her standards and self-value have plummeted ;)
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Originally posted by spider_007
more like an upgrade
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I stand corrected big pimpin :D

The game is in you not on you ;)
 
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thanx for all the replies.

I guess ill keep being MR DJ to this girl, so she can see how patheic her current BF is compare to me, wait....he cant compare lol.

But then again i dont want this as my girlfriend cause how i know that she wont do the same while she is with me....haha i guess that we would have to talk about that if that ever happens, but for now ill keep tryna get some while no strings are attached between us:)

Oh yeah i asked her if she would like to kick it with me or go out with me one of this days and she said ok, so...:D :cheer: :p
 
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Today you are the new thing

Tomorrow there'll be someone else.
 
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thats why i dont wanna let her get too confortable with me or too close to me so that she doesnt get bored quick and that way ill have her wanting more all the time.
Also i wanna apply some dj techniques on her so that what you said doesnt happen, and there is always gonna be someone else, but the question is, is that someone else as good as me?

Sorry for the ****yness but I DON'T THINK SO;)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Re: Re: Am i wrong for talking to her even though she has a man?

Originally posted by JackPrescott
If you dont mind sucking second hand d**k, or tasting his man juice when you kiss her/go down on her, and you dont mind that another man is pleasuring her anally at night, hey, you go guy!
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That's basically what you do with every other girl.
 
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Re: Re: Re: Am i wrong for talking to her even though she has a man?

Originally posted by nightryder
That's basically what you do with every other girl.
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True unleast she is a virgin, or you are he first bf
 
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