"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Am I Wasting My Time, With This Date???

soulforge

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Got a date with a rather cute chick this coming monday, i met her on POF


So been talking a little on whatsapp, and i got a bit sexual with her.. she seemed ok about it..


Anyhow she sent me a text asking me what i want to do for the date?


I suggested a movie and a drink at my place or a drink at local pub.. she is ok with coming to my house for a drink, so i was thinking she could be ok for a bang

But she sent me this text today???

"Just to let you know when i say I'm not looking for anything serious that doesn't mean I'm looking for "fun" meaning "sex", and i don't mean that in a bad way I'm just letting you know that's all


So i text her back and said, hey thats fine.. what kinda movies do you like?



So this girl is on POF her profile states she wants casual dating, with no commitment..
now she is hinting she doesn't want sex


Should i proceed forward with the date?? Once she is at my house and the wine is flowing she may change her tune completely?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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bro, dont worry about it, none of that actually means she doesnt want sex in fact girls who pull that line are usually total sl u t s

yes, just go with the plan, have a drink, make out with her and keep. escalating without giving the slightest phuck

she will likely stop you at some point, thats fine just smile and tell her she tasted good or something then back off and continue your date

she will likely phuck. you at the end of it or the next one

women just say this cuz they dont wana look slu t t y, ahich usually means they r extra slu t t y

for future reference you should also respond to such lines by telling them 'whoaw slow down there turbo, i need you to show me youre a cool. chik before i even think of phucking you'

edit: :)'s statement below is absolutely on the money lmao well played happy face,. well played
 
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ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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Some here will say it's a **** test. I disagree. She doesn't know that she wants to fvck you yet. Go for it. The worst that can happen is she says 'no'. And it's your house bro, she can put out or get kicked out. lol
 

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soulforge said:
"Just to let you know when i say I'm not looking for anything serious that doesn't mean I'm looking for "fun" meaning "sex", and i don't mean that in a bad way I'm just letting you know that's all


So this girl is on POF her profile states she wants casual dating, with no commitment..
now she is hinting she doesn't want sex
Seems to me she's saying: "We both know we're going to bang and you probably know I do this all the time but I just want us to pretend that I'm this innocent angel so I can feel better about myself. Is that okay?"
 

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ImTheDoubleGreatest! said:
Some here will say it's a **** test. I disagree. She doesn't know that she wants to fvck you yet. Go for it. The worst that can happen is she says 'no'. And it's your house bro, she can put out or get kicked out. lol

Hey man thats what i was thinking... i am putting zero effort into this date.. she will be doing all the travelling.. may aswell invite her over.. if she doesn't put out.. i,ll just send her slutty ass home!!

The fact that she is willing to come straight to my house, first date.. speaks volumes!!


7 out 10 chicks that have come straight to my house, first date.. i have ended up banging!

Actually its pretty rare for me to travel for online sluts, if they don't come to my house or very close to my area.. i don't usually bother with them...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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