"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Am I Wasting My Time, With This Date???

soulforge

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Got a date with a rather cute chick this coming monday, i met her on POF


So been talking a little on whatsapp, and i got a bit sexual with her.. she seemed ok about it..


Anyhow she sent me a text asking me what i want to do for the date?


I suggested a movie and a drink at my place or a drink at local pub.. she is ok with coming to my house for a drink, so i was thinking she could be ok for a bang

But she sent me this text today???

"Just to let you know when i say I'm not looking for anything serious that doesn't mean I'm looking for "fun" meaning "sex", and i don't mean that in a bad way I'm just letting you know that's all


So i text her back and said, hey thats fine.. what kinda movies do you like?



So this girl is on POF her profile states she wants casual dating, with no commitment..
now she is hinting she doesn't want sex


Should i proceed forward with the date?? Once she is at my house and the wine is flowing she may change her tune completely?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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bro, dont worry about it, none of that actually means she doesnt want sex in fact girls who pull that line are usually total sl u t s

yes, just go with the plan, have a drink, make out with her and keep. escalating without giving the slightest phuck

she will likely stop you at some point, thats fine just smile and tell her she tasted good or something then back off and continue your date

she will likely phuck. you at the end of it or the next one

women just say this cuz they dont wana look slu t t y, ahich usually means they r extra slu t t y

for future reference you should also respond to such lines by telling them 'whoaw slow down there turbo, i need you to show me youre a cool. chik before i even think of phucking you'

edit: :)'s statement below is absolutely on the money lmao well played happy face,. well played
 
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Some here will say it's a **** test. I disagree. She doesn't know that she wants to fvck you yet. Go for it. The worst that can happen is she says 'no'. And it's your house bro, she can put out or get kicked out. lol
 

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soulforge said:
"Just to let you know when i say I'm not looking for anything serious that doesn't mean I'm looking for "fun" meaning "sex", and i don't mean that in a bad way I'm just letting you know that's all


So this girl is on POF her profile states she wants casual dating, with no commitment..
now she is hinting she doesn't want sex
Seems to me she's saying: "We both know we're going to bang and you probably know I do this all the time but I just want us to pretend that I'm this innocent angel so I can feel better about myself. Is that okay?"
 

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ImTheDoubleGreatest! said:
Some here will say it's a **** test. I disagree. She doesn't know that she wants to fvck you yet. Go for it. The worst that can happen is she says 'no'. And it's your house bro, she can put out or get kicked out. lol

Hey man thats what i was thinking... i am putting zero effort into this date.. she will be doing all the travelling.. may aswell invite her over.. if she doesn't put out.. i,ll just send her slutty ass home!!

The fact that she is willing to come straight to my house, first date.. speaks volumes!!


7 out 10 chicks that have come straight to my house, first date.. i have ended up banging!

Actually its pretty rare for me to travel for online sluts, if they don't come to my house or very close to my area.. i don't usually bother with them...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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