"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Am I Wasting My Time, With This Date???

soulforge

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Got a date with a rather cute chick this coming monday, i met her on POF


So been talking a little on whatsapp, and i got a bit sexual with her.. she seemed ok about it..


Anyhow she sent me a text asking me what i want to do for the date?


I suggested a movie and a drink at my place or a drink at local pub.. she is ok with coming to my house for a drink, so i was thinking she could be ok for a bang

But she sent me this text today???

"Just to let you know when i say I'm not looking for anything serious that doesn't mean I'm looking for "fun" meaning "sex", and i don't mean that in a bad way I'm just letting you know that's all


So i text her back and said, hey thats fine.. what kinda movies do you like?



So this girl is on POF her profile states she wants casual dating, with no commitment..
now she is hinting she doesn't want sex


Should i proceed forward with the date?? Once she is at my house and the wine is flowing she may change her tune completely?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Alexandar

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bro, dont worry about it, none of that actually means she doesnt want sex in fact girls who pull that line are usually total sl u t s

yes, just go with the plan, have a drink, make out with her and keep. escalating without giving the slightest phuck

she will likely stop you at some point, thats fine just smile and tell her she tasted good or something then back off and continue your date

she will likely phuck. you at the end of it or the next one

women just say this cuz they dont wana look slu t t y, ahich usually means they r extra slu t t y

for future reference you should also respond to such lines by telling them 'whoaw slow down there turbo, i need you to show me youre a cool. chik before i even think of phucking you'

edit: :)'s statement below is absolutely on the money lmao well played happy face,. well played
 
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ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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Some here will say it's a **** test. I disagree. She doesn't know that she wants to fvck you yet. Go for it. The worst that can happen is she says 'no'. And it's your house bro, she can put out or get kicked out. lol
 

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soulforge said:
"Just to let you know when i say I'm not looking for anything serious that doesn't mean I'm looking for "fun" meaning "sex", and i don't mean that in a bad way I'm just letting you know that's all


So this girl is on POF her profile states she wants casual dating, with no commitment..
now she is hinting she doesn't want sex
Seems to me she's saying: "We both know we're going to bang and you probably know I do this all the time but I just want us to pretend that I'm this innocent angel so I can feel better about myself. Is that okay?"
 

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ImTheDoubleGreatest! said:
Some here will say it's a **** test. I disagree. She doesn't know that she wants to fvck you yet. Go for it. The worst that can happen is she says 'no'. And it's your house bro, she can put out or get kicked out. lol

Hey man thats what i was thinking... i am putting zero effort into this date.. she will be doing all the travelling.. may aswell invite her over.. if she doesn't put out.. i,ll just send her slutty ass home!!

The fact that she is willing to come straight to my house, first date.. speaks volumes!!


7 out 10 chicks that have come straight to my house, first date.. i have ended up banging!

Actually its pretty rare for me to travel for online sluts, if they don't come to my house or very close to my area.. i don't usually bother with them...
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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