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Am I too picky???

Dee-Zy

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Originally posted by bob2007
I especially question your " won't date a women even a year younger".

I believe that the majority of women look for older men.

long story it's kind of what u say. They are look'N for older men so it's like having a step a head, a step done before the other dudes. I guess it comes in my challenge issues.

It just seems as if every girls that are asians or younger then me are interested in me - therefore I'm kinda bored. Where as I have more trouble attract'N girls my age (that are hot of course) N especially girls that are older then me. I guess I wanna work for my sh!t or I'm bored.

I need to feel exited when I'm with a chick - otherwise, I'm just like next.

I'm 19
 

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Originally posted by Chaos-Knight
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suavedave said :
Same boat here!

I have this rigid standard-- Japanese and not too pretty. I've narrowed it down because ...

Japanese -- they are the ones that turn me on now,

Not too pretty -- Less likely for heart break.

I know, this is strict, but ... if anyone has any suggestions as to how I can cease from narrowing my view, that would be great

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I am also into japanese!
these women have many qualitys
that I am looking for,

Like:

1.NEVER GETTING FAT
2.Shorter but not midget
3.Intellegence
4.Loyalty
5.tight p===y
6.Non-enlargened titties(thus less guys will stare at your girl)
7.Black hair
8.Most of em Love camping and mountains/scenery -Big Plus
9.Speaks Japanese - Which I am learning (Im into Anime)

10.A skinny tall guy like me can pick her up and not break my back


Anyway,I'm Very picky also but I plan to practice with regular
chicks (and never get serious with them)
good to have some HB - FB's (lots of s.x anyway)
and sharpen my skills... till it becomes convenient to
settle down then I'll search for a Japanese Gal.

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I notice you are in western canada. I'd like to pick your brain on places to meet them. I've got a means now, but I'd like to improve... only 1 # and 2@ this month so far :(
 

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Western Canada is my playing feild
(some of you might be thinking iglu's and lumberjacks)

Here's a few thoughts on places to look:

1.Iglu's (kidding)
2.Bars (not to be confused with clubs)
3.Group type activitys (like SCA or maybe even AA)
Im looking into Rockclimbing cause I love climbing
and I can see only skinny-inshape gals going there...
4.Curling - won't catch me doing that though...
5.Sports - not for me though except fun stuff like Dirtbiking...
6.Grocery stores - I will attempt it sometime...
7.Pot smoking groups - cause total stangers can become
friends almost instantly ( and it's low-stress )
8.Parks and Beaches ( BC has Millions of them )
9.Bookstrores - the kind that have a coffee shop

and 10.In the girls washroom (jus kidding)

10.5 .Pet stores - some hotties need to maintain their pets
(like getting doggy treats for the Nice guys...woof)

11.Malls - havent tried but worth listing =

12. Traveling BC - if your tied to school it's probably not for you,
me I do the camping thing every few weekends and go
to a different place each time,sometimes I revisit
places I like alot....
and if you do travel...do not forget about...
13. Hot Spings - Very Relaxing and you can see if a woman
is chunky or not...(plus the girl should be relaxed too right?)

Now that Iv listed these it becomes clearer for myself
also (gives self a pat-on-the-back)

Good luck eh?

And ya'll watch out for the "Mosquito in high heels"
(most common in large citys and rich areas)
 

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you are too picky just concentrate on gettin the girls first then soon they will come. you will then start land the ones you want maybe a girl you meet wants you to meet a friend of hers that is the hottie yu lookin for
 

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I think juggler seem to have a good approach to this. Look for openers, not targets. Talk to everybody. Give as many girls as possible the chance to know you.

For a long time I have been victim of being very critisizive. I think it's a much better attitude to look for atleast one positive trait in every girls you see/meet. Makes you much more happy, thinking that way.
 

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hmmm...

This thread had me thinking - thanks guys.

I might change my standards...
 
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