"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Am I too picky, is that why I'm not getting laid as much?

thewarrior

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Once in a while I"ll be hanging with some guys and they'll make sexual remarks towards a female I'd never think about sleeping with. They're either too big horizontally and/or have an ugly mug. But these guys say things like "i'll put a hurtin' on her" etc etc etc.

I'm not just seeking HB 10's (actually prefer an HB7 or 8) but I don't like girls with tummys (thick girls are fine but not all over fat girls) and the face can't be like "damn" (in a bad way). But I guess ***** is *****. Should I start being more friendly to these girls to get laid and keep my plates spinning?

I hear you guys talking about spinning plates and ask another girl out so you won't develop oneitis. But I doubt you all are banging and dating HB 9's all the time.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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LDBaha

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If you think fvcking fatties is gonna improve your game then you should go for it. Honestly I'm just like you, i just don't feel attraction at all if she doesn't fit my physical profile, I'm not talking about a hb10

There are tons of pretty girls that you can ask out (from 6 to 10) but pretty and skinny!

I like pretty girl, they don't have to be super hot, they can be really skinny or even a tad bit overweight but they have to be pretty.

Yes it hampers the amount of girls I date but dating the other girls feels like settling and i like to go for excellence at everything.

IF you're starting out, just go out with whatever pays atention to you first, you have to level up, you wont date a 9 right off the bat.

I started out with a 5 when i was 16 and have been going up since then, I met a 10 and hopefully I'll have sex with her =).
 

Gustav Yavo

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I think every guy should have standards to the women he's fvcking. You should know your value and go for girls that are of the same value or more. Its much more satisfying when you get something you had to work at a little to get rather than just some desperate free pvssy.

However, i try to hit on girls of every shape and size, for two reasons: A) sometimes fatties loose weight and become good looking (ive only seen this once tho) B) sets up some practice before you go after the trophy fish.
 

Asteconn

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I'd never do anything below a "6" for me. Although I prefer a descriptive scale similar to:
"Offensive, Ugly, Nothing Special, Okay (6), Nice, Hot, Epic"
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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sodbuster

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In deer hunting, if you shoot the first buck you see, you will only rarely shoot the big one[if you get lucky]. You need to develope the patience to hunt more/harder to find the trophy. That may mean you don't shoot a deer that year-but you tried

In women, if you are spending all your time with women who don't meet your standards, how are you going to find one who does? All it means is you go home alone a few times-the season doesn't end.
 
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