"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Am I too picky, is that why I'm not getting laid as much?

thewarrior

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Once in a while I"ll be hanging with some guys and they'll make sexual remarks towards a female I'd never think about sleeping with. They're either too big horizontally and/or have an ugly mug. But these guys say things like "i'll put a hurtin' on her" etc etc etc.

I'm not just seeking HB 10's (actually prefer an HB7 or 8) but I don't like girls with tummys (thick girls are fine but not all over fat girls) and the face can't be like "damn" (in a bad way). But I guess ***** is *****. Should I start being more friendly to these girls to get laid and keep my plates spinning?

I hear you guys talking about spinning plates and ask another girl out so you won't develop oneitis. But I doubt you all are banging and dating HB 9's all the time.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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LDBaha

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If you think fvcking fatties is gonna improve your game then you should go for it. Honestly I'm just like you, i just don't feel attraction at all if she doesn't fit my physical profile, I'm not talking about a hb10

There are tons of pretty girls that you can ask out (from 6 to 10) but pretty and skinny!

I like pretty girl, they don't have to be super hot, they can be really skinny or even a tad bit overweight but they have to be pretty.

Yes it hampers the amount of girls I date but dating the other girls feels like settling and i like to go for excellence at everything.

IF you're starting out, just go out with whatever pays atention to you first, you have to level up, you wont date a 9 right off the bat.

I started out with a 5 when i was 16 and have been going up since then, I met a 10 and hopefully I'll have sex with her =).
 

Gustav Yavo

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I think every guy should have standards to the women he's fvcking. You should know your value and go for girls that are of the same value or more. Its much more satisfying when you get something you had to work at a little to get rather than just some desperate free pvssy.

However, i try to hit on girls of every shape and size, for two reasons: A) sometimes fatties loose weight and become good looking (ive only seen this once tho) B) sets up some practice before you go after the trophy fish.
 

Asteconn

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I'd never do anything below a "6" for me. Although I prefer a descriptive scale similar to:
"Offensive, Ugly, Nothing Special, Okay (6), Nice, Hot, Epic"
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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sodbuster

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In deer hunting, if you shoot the first buck you see, you will only rarely shoot the big one[if you get lucky]. You need to develope the patience to hunt more/harder to find the trophy. That may mean you don't shoot a deer that year-but you tried

In women, if you are spending all your time with women who don't meet your standards, how are you going to find one who does? All it means is you go home alone a few times-the season doesn't end.
 
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