"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Am I too late? too old?

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Yes, I am 44 and was dating a 21 year old for a while last year... it can be done! You won't have a good relationship, but you can have fun for a while!

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm in my early 40's, and get more girls/women in their 20's now than when I was in my 20's
It doesn't hurt that I look 10 years younger than I actually am.

Doing things like following the advice on this board, and the advice of guys like David DeAngelo, Mystery, Tyler Durden etc...helps, as does working out and looking your best, but Confidence and having the right Attidude is the key.
 
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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
Anyone that feels that someone can be too old to become a DJ is probably too young to know any better.
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I concur!

Ogre - don't be your worst enemy - let the women reject you based on your age (if such is the case). Don't reject yourself!

Most men get their first gray hairs in their 30's and some in their 20's - this is not a big deal considering all the cosmetics out there to cover graying hairs!

Women usually tie [older] "AGE" to their declining beauty and thus romantic potential - men do not!!
 
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