Hi I'm new to the so suave forms I'm 26 single unemployed truck driver. I have two kids by two different women. I feel life is digging me deeper. Both my baby mamas ended up hating me the last one got with her ex right after I left. I know I care to little sometimes. Then I care to much an go crazy when its to late. I don't know if I'm to old to change. But I know I have to change for the better. I'm tired of women ending up hating me, and me hating myself. I just want to love an accept myself. How can I help myself?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Am i to old to change?
- Thread starter bigwuz
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I would probably start out by trying to get a job and also picking up a hobby. But first and foremost go fill out some applications and after you got the job thing good for you pick up a hobby something you like to do. I personally am a big fan of boxing and go train at a boxing gym 3 days out the week, for me it's a great way to get away from it all when I go train.
If you also have custody of your kids or can get them whenever you want its also really good spending a lot of time with them and taking them out when your bored.
To me it seems like you might be sitting around the house a lot and not getting out, you can fall in a depression doing that day in and day out.
It's never to late, I'm 28 myself and always still learning.
Good Luck!
If you also have custody of your kids or can get them whenever you want its also really good spending a lot of time with them and taking them out when your bored.
To me it seems like you might be sitting around the house a lot and not getting out, you can fall in a depression doing that day in and day out.
It's never to late, I'm 28 myself and always still learning.
Good Luck!
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
Too late? Look to the left of my post. I didn't start getting it together till 50. The worst thing for you is idleness. It slowly strangles a man's self esteem.
This site will probably help to moderate your caring too little/caring too much cycle. Good luck!
This site will probably help to moderate your caring too little/caring too much cycle. Good luck!
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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You can do this, sir. Please come back soon and give us a few more details about what you think the problems might be.
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