"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Am i to old to change?

bigwuz

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Hi I'm new to the so suave forms I'm 26 single unemployed truck driver. I have two kids by two different women. I feel life is digging me deeper. Both my baby mamas ended up hating me the last one got with her ex right after I left. I know I care to little sometimes. Then I care to much an go crazy when its to late. I don't know if I'm to old to change. But I know I have to change for the better. I'm tired of women ending up hating me, and me hating myself. I just want to love an accept myself. How can I help myself?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Droz88

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Read the DJ bible. That's very empowering material. Only you can decide the answer to that question. All we can do is tell you what is possible...which is anything.
 

bigwuz

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I wanted to add I think I just get bored easily so I treat women badly after awhile I'll read that today
 

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I would probably start out by trying to get a job and also picking up a hobby. But first and foremost go fill out some applications and after you got the job thing good for you pick up a hobby something you like to do. I personally am a big fan of boxing and go train at a boxing gym 3 days out the week, for me it's a great way to get away from it all when I go train.

If you also have custody of your kids or can get them whenever you want its also really good spending a lot of time with them and taking them out when your bored.

To me it seems like you might be sitting around the house a lot and not getting out, you can fall in a depression doing that day in and day out.

It's never to late, I'm 28 myself and always still learning.

Good Luck!
 

Atom Smasher

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Too late? Look to the left of my post. I didn't start getting it together till 50. The worst thing for you is idleness. It slowly strangles a man's self esteem.

This site will probably help to moderate your caring too little/caring too much cycle. Good luck!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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The Gambler

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You can do this, sir. Please come back soon and give us a few more details about what you think the problems might be.

The Gambler
 

Zerro

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You've not too old to change, just too reluctant. I turned 30 before I finally got it together and started getting good results with women.
 

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My life began at age 26. That's the first age a man can be considered a professional at his trade (having graduated at 22 ideally).
 

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Thanks guys I now have an action plan to follow. I'll start by looking for jobs and push myself. I'll also follow the DJ bible. I think this will be my best year ever
 
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