Hi I'm new to the so suave forms I'm 26 single unemployed truck driver. I have two kids by two different women. I feel life is digging me deeper. Both my baby mamas ended up hating me the last one got with her ex right after I left. I know I care to little sometimes. Then I care to much an go crazy when its to late. I don't know if I'm to old to change. But I know I have to change for the better. I'm tired of women ending up hating me, and me hating myself. I just want to love an accept myself. How can I help myself?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Am i to old to change?
- Thread starter bigwuz
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I would probably start out by trying to get a job and also picking up a hobby. But first and foremost go fill out some applications and after you got the job thing good for you pick up a hobby something you like to do. I personally am a big fan of boxing and go train at a boxing gym 3 days out the week, for me it's a great way to get away from it all when I go train.
If you also have custody of your kids or can get them whenever you want its also really good spending a lot of time with them and taking them out when your bored.
To me it seems like you might be sitting around the house a lot and not getting out, you can fall in a depression doing that day in and day out.
It's never to late, I'm 28 myself and always still learning.
Good Luck!
If you also have custody of your kids or can get them whenever you want its also really good spending a lot of time with them and taking them out when your bored.
To me it seems like you might be sitting around the house a lot and not getting out, you can fall in a depression doing that day in and day out.
It's never to late, I'm 28 myself and always still learning.
Good Luck!
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
Too late? Look to the left of my post. I didn't start getting it together till 50. The worst thing for you is idleness. It slowly strangles a man's self esteem.
This site will probably help to moderate your caring too little/caring too much cycle. Good luck!
This site will probably help to moderate your caring too little/caring too much cycle. Good luck!
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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You can do this, sir. Please come back soon and give us a few more details about what you think the problems might be.
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