"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Am I the only one who thinks lots of women look better with minimal to no makeup?

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I prefer the no makeup look for all these ladies by far








honestly our culture of telling women to constantly wear makeup is the equivalent of putting so much ketchup on your steak that you don't even taste the meat anymore. We have desensitized ourselves to finding a natural beautiful female with years and years and years of telling the female gender to cover their faces with the f***king warpaint

You get a woman who is naturally pretty, have her eat healthy and workout and stay in shape and she will almost always look fantastic with little or no makeup. I would also say this is another reason I want a mediterranean or Spanish GF - do they not only age much better, but their skin naturally looks better with no makeup IMO.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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nah most women look worse with out make up, there are cuties who can pull it off
 

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they dont care about u, they care about majority of men, who like make up.


now, they dont care about these mein either, they just care about competition.
 

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A lot of makeup is a huge turn-off for me. It screams 'I'm a hottie'...

A modest amount of make-up can be nice though.... The more they put on, the more they seem to be compensating for their insecurities.
 

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The first one once she removes her make up moves from hot pornstar to gipsy woman begging on the street corner.

Some girls do look better (meant as more genuine) without make ups, the others surely dont.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Definitely prefer the natural look.

Always find it funny how some girls will only date guys of certain height, physique etc considering they look completely different without the layers and layers of make up they wear.
 

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If you wanna meet chicks by the dozens that NEVER wear makeup, then you should start attending church regularly.

And I say this as an atheist because I completely avoid women that don't wear makeup. They are not my type.
The ones I come across with zero makeup on always happen to be 200% religious.
I've seen this pattern for many years both on and offline.
 
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I like the natural look, with just some light makeup. The girls who have to layer it on with a trowel are usually the ugly ones anyway (they need it the most).
But a little can be sexy, I think a little smoky eye can be hot.

Usually if I don't like the looks of a girl without makeup, I don't like the looks of her with it either. Because if it's so much that it changes her appearance, it's too heavy. Makeup is effective to enhance a woman's beauty, not bury it.
 

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I like the natural look, with just some light makeup.
But a little can be sexy...Makeup is effective to enhance a woman's beauty, not bury it.
That's my philosophy on make up (Paraphrased from @zekko above.) I've dated men who insisted I didn't wear any at all (not even clear lip gloss and a bit of mascara in NYC going out to high end places in Manhattan), and I don't typically wear it on a day to day basis.

Women who have good skin and natural beauty don't need much anyway. I like to wear a little at times to enhance natural features. I'm blonde and fair so a little mascara and eyeliner/shadow adds some contrast to the blonde hair, blue eyes, peachy skin, light brows and the contrast is nice. For photos, necessary.

Younger women usually wear more makeup in trying to look sexier, hotter & older. Older women (if they can pull it off) will wear less makeup as it helps them look younger, fresher, sweeter.

I once overheard a conversation an ex model was having with her dinner companion at Le Cirque in NYC probably 20 years ago. I was dining alone and eavesdropping covertly but shamelessly and found the content of the conversation fascinating. The model was older (probably in her 40s) and had a Christy Brinkley/Kim Basinger type look (it wasn't either of those people, but she was a very pretty, tall slender blonde with cover girl features) and they were talking about this. She was wearing lip gloss, mascara and loose powder. That's it. And they were talking about how a beautiful woman shouldn't need any more than that - and that men who appreciate real beauty don't like more than that really...

I was in my late 20s back then and I really found that conversation eye-opening. Funnily enough, guess what my go to make up items are and have been for years (added bonus can be ready to go anywhere in 5 minutes...) Lip gloss, mascara & loose powder. Simple, easy & breezy.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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