"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Am i the only one who hates sexually agressive women?

paintballz

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i mean for christ sakes sometimes i just dont want too, i have a few women on my hook and some are just down right agreessive sexually and im completley turned off by that, i have to say no like 5 times and get an attitude and tell them to leave me alone in bed.

who here like's women who are sexually agressive?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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BTW i do get laid alot, so its not like im gay or have tendancies, just those issues bother me to no end
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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I think it's sexy and confident for a woman to go after a guy that she wants. She doesn't have to be over the top but you can't complain when one lets you know certain things straight away.
 

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its almost like i have to fight them off with a stick! to me its a huge turn off... when im pumpimg ass all day with a chick then go see another one later that night sex is last thing on my mind. then they get all defensive and what not
 

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Yea, it really sucks when a chick rips your jeans off and starts sucking your c0ck without you having to lift a finger
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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maybe my testosterone levels are low, ill have to get some bloodwork done and see what my ratios are.
 

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Yes Paintballz, by all means, please get yourself checked out by ALL the medical and psychological professionals that you can make an appointment with.

Because I'm sure that there has to be "A PROBLEM" whenever a man doesn't want to have sex with a woman EVERY TIME the wind blows, or EVERY TIME it's offered to him...because as we all know:

Sex is THE MOST important thing in life at ALL times and in ALL circumstances. :rolleyes:
 

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wow dude ...wish I had your problems ! ! ! :rockon:

It does not bother me unless I am not real attracted to her ..... bud light I found works well for that so ..... can't say I have had your problem ! !

:rockon:
 

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Try taking extra zinc, with a good quality multivitamin. You'll earn a new nickname...Woody.
 

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Taking extra zinc wont' necessarily fix any sex problems, and taking more than around 50mg a day is considered bad for you.

Besides, that doesn't sound like what he's talking about. And I kinda agree, it's nice when a girl is kinda coy about it...
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Aggressiveness is a masculine trait - an aggressive masculine woman is ugly!
 

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Last Man Standing said:
Aggressiveness is a masculine trait - an aggressive masculine woman is ugly!
thank you


i feel queezy when they grab up on me and wont let me go. its pretty disturbing....

like this morning after the beer wore off we both woke up and she wanted sex, i was like hell no fattie. she would not let me go or get out of bed. finally i was like im outta here see you later!
 

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paintballz said:
thank you


i feel queezy when they grab up on me and wont let me go. its pretty disturbing....
You make it sound as if you were with a guy! :nervous:
paintballz said:
like this morning after the beer wore off we both woke up and she wanted sex, i was like hell no fattie. she would not let me go or get out of bed. finally i was like im outta here see you later!
Ohhh, you're just having chubby remorse. Maybe you shouldn't sarge when you're drunk.
 

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paintballz said:
tlike this morning after the beer wore off we both woke up and she wanted sex, i was like hell no fattie. she would not let me go or get out of bed. finally i was like im outta here see you later!
:crackup:

Well..(I found this extremely funny)...don't bed women you don't find attractive!
 

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STR8UP said:
Yea, it really sucks when a chick rips your jeans off and starts sucking your c0ck without you having to lift a finger
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

But yeah, some women DO get offended if you turn them down for sex...you get the, "You don't find me attractive" speech. Be careful when you get that...it usually comes from a woman who's been using sex to manipulate you and is in sudden shock that her main source of power in the relationship may not be as much of a "given" as previously thought.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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paintballz said:
like this morning after the beer wore off we both woke up and she wanted sex, i was like hell no fattie.
Now that's a different problem altogether.
 

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paintballz said:
i mean for christ sakes sometimes i just dont want too, i have a few women on my hook and some are just down right agreessive sexually and im completley turned off by that, i have to say no like 5 times and get an attitude and tell them to leave me alone in bed.

who here like's women who are sexually agressive?

if a man likes an aggressive woman, he is more on his feminine side. (Cuz only females are suppose to like and be attracted to aggressiveness). If a woman is aggressive, she is a man! :eek:

I hate it when a woman is aggressive, makes me wanna bash her up.:box:
i LIKE it when a woman is shy.:whistle:
 

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To the Op, Sounds like the women you are messing with need a real man.

Their aggression is bringing out your feminine side...................... and submissive side and you feel uncomfortable about it. Your confused!!

Pleeeeezzze. I cringed when I read your post. Whats this world coming to.
 

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logic1 said:
To the Op, Sounds like the women you are messing with need a real man.

Their aggression is bringing out your feminine side...................... and submissive side and you feel uncomfortable about it. Your confused!!

Pleeeeezzze. I cringed when I read your post. Whats this world coming to.
believe me bro im agressive, howver i fo have to reavaluate how i behave around these types of women.

FLame or not im taking all your replies seriously fella's.... everyday i learn new things about women and myself.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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