"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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am i the only one who feels like going on dates is a huge hassle?

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self-explantaory.

does going on a date ever feel like a hassle? like youd rather just chill out than deal with the hassles of a date?

sometimes i flake on purpose just because id rather sit and watch tv.

anyone ever feel like this? whats wrong with me?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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da dynamically [B said:
Dating is actually a woman thing. Dating is a social institution created for women. [/B]Guys just want to get a b1owjob while watching the game. Don't feel bad for feeling like a guy.

Think about it.......Dating is supposed to be about you and her. "you and her" can happen anywhere, including your couch. But for the woman, it is not about you and her, it is about her and her FANTASY.

For most guys, dating is just a means to an end.
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Ever see those "Match.com" commercials? The guys in every commercial act like women on the dates. That stuff MUST be scripted.

If it isn't scripted........oh boy. :mad:
 
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Yes It's Like We Have To Jump Through Hoops Just To Score!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Thats the case when you want to get laid only. People do seek companionship and actually like to leave the house, you know. That sounds like apathy to me.
 
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Each to their own.

I love dating - getting out and meeting people is interesting, but then I guess I'm a people person. It doesn't have to be women per say - I like going out with people from work, from my rugby club or just chatting to randoms you meet whilst you're out.

It sounds a little like you find the whole thing a bit hard because you're self concious. Meeting people should be a relaxed and enjoyable thing.

Meeting a girl and having a drink should be something you enjoy - it shouldn't stress you out. Even if you decide she's not worth a pop, at least you've got a funny story.

Otherwise...what do you talk about with your mates when you meet up?
'What have you been up to this week?'. 'Nothing'. 'Oh...'.

Grab life by the balls, or sit back and wait for it to kick you in them.
 
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Check out Brent....he teaches game without needing to go to dates...actually, he is really good at what he does...

For me personally, I continue doing dates because they get me results nervertheless
 
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I see what you mean,and I agree and as you I refused many date simply because the disturb wasn't worth any possible good outcome.

The best thing is to spend time with a girl in a friendly stressless environment unlike an expensive bar or a crowded nightclub,even worse is if the "date" is a struggle to keep her attention from her friends "happening" to be there.

I find it better to just do something togheter where the focus is doing something instead of jsut socializing,rock climbing or a walk are better for sure than a table with drink.
 
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Noodles said:
Each to their own.

I love dating - getting out and meeting people is interesting, but then I guess I'm a people person. It doesn't have to be women per say - I like going out with people from work, from my rugby club or just chatting to randoms you meet whilst you're out.

It sounds a little like you find the whole thing a bit hard because you're self concious. Meeting people should be a relaxed and enjoyable thing.

Meeting a girl and having a drink should be something you enjoy - it shouldn't stress you out. Even if you decide she's not worth a pop, at least you've got a funny story.

Otherwise...what do you talk about with your mates when you meet up?
'What have you been up to this week?'. 'Nothing'. 'Oh...'.

Grab life by the balls, or sit back and wait for it to kick you in them.
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hmm i really like this.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Noodles said:
Each to their own.

I love dating - getting out and meeting people is interesting, but then I guess I'm a people person. It doesn't have to be women per say - I like going out with people from work, from my rugby club or just chatting to randoms you meet whilst you're out.

It sounds a little like you find the whole thing a bit hard because you're self concious. Meeting people should be a relaxed and enjoyable thing.

Meeting a girl and having a drink should be something you enjoy - it shouldn't stress you out. Even if you decide she's not worth a pop, at least you've got a funny story.

Otherwise...what do you talk about with your mates when you meet up?
'What have you been up to this week?'. 'Nothing'. 'Oh...'.

Grab life by the balls, or sit back and wait for it to kick you in them.
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hmm i really like this.
 
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