“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

Read more...

am i the only one who feels like going on dates is a huge hassle?

garruk

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jun 12, 2008
Messages
437
Reaction score
7
self-explantaory.

does going on a date ever feel like a hassle? like youd rather just chill out than deal with the hassles of a date?

sometimes i flake on purpose just because id rather sit and watch tv.

anyone ever feel like this? whats wrong with me?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

RockaRolla25

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 16, 2010
Messages
119
Reaction score
5
da dynamically [B said:
Dating is actually a woman thing. Dating is a social institution created for women. [/B]Guys just want to get a b1owjob while watching the game. Don't feel bad for feeling like a guy.

Think about it.......Dating is supposed to be about you and her. "you and her" can happen anywhere, including your couch. But for the woman, it is not about you and her, it is about her and her FANTASY.

For most guys, dating is just a means to an end.
Ever see those "Match.com" commercials? The guys in every commercial act like women on the dates. That stuff MUST be scripted.

If it isn't scripted........oh boy. :mad:
 

LoneWolf

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Feb 23, 2011
Messages
398
Reaction score
6
Yes It's Like We Have To Jump Through Hoops Just To Score!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

Read more...

PapiChulo

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 30, 2010
Messages
1,283
Reaction score
61
Location
Canada, eh?
Thats the case when you want to get laid only. People do seek companionship and actually like to leave the house, you know. That sounds like apathy to me.
 

Noodles

Don Juan
Joined
Jan 6, 2011
Messages
130
Reaction score
7
Location
London
Each to their own.

I love dating - getting out and meeting people is interesting, but then I guess I'm a people person. It doesn't have to be women per say - I like going out with people from work, from my rugby club or just chatting to randoms you meet whilst you're out.

It sounds a little like you find the whole thing a bit hard because you're self concious. Meeting people should be a relaxed and enjoyable thing.

Meeting a girl and having a drink should be something you enjoy - it shouldn't stress you out. Even if you decide she's not worth a pop, at least you've got a funny story.

Otherwise...what do you talk about with your mates when you meet up?
'What have you been up to this week?'. 'Nothing'. 'Oh...'.

Grab life by the balls, or sit back and wait for it to kick you in them.
 

Awesome36

New Member
Joined
Feb 24, 2011
Messages
3
Reaction score
0
Check out Brent....he teaches game without needing to go to dates...actually, he is really good at what he does...

For me personally, I continue doing dates because they get me results nervertheless
 

Strelok

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 20, 2010
Messages
916
Reaction score
44
I see what you mean,and I agree and as you I refused many date simply because the disturb wasn't worth any possible good outcome.

The best thing is to spend time with a girl in a friendly stressless environment unlike an expensive bar or a crowded nightclub,even worse is if the "date" is a struggle to keep her attention from her friends "happening" to be there.

I find it better to just do something togheter where the focus is doing something instead of jsut socializing,rock climbing or a walk are better for sure than a table with drink.
 

garruk

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jun 12, 2008
Messages
437
Reaction score
7
Noodles said:
Each to their own.

I love dating - getting out and meeting people is interesting, but then I guess I'm a people person. It doesn't have to be women per say - I like going out with people from work, from my rugby club or just chatting to randoms you meet whilst you're out.

It sounds a little like you find the whole thing a bit hard because you're self concious. Meeting people should be a relaxed and enjoyable thing.

Meeting a girl and having a drink should be something you enjoy - it shouldn't stress you out. Even if you decide she's not worth a pop, at least you've got a funny story.

Otherwise...what do you talk about with your mates when you meet up?
'What have you been up to this week?'. 'Nothing'. 'Oh...'.

Grab life by the balls, or sit back and wait for it to kick you in them.
hmm i really like this.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

garruk

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jun 12, 2008
Messages
437
Reaction score
7
Noodles said:
Each to their own.

I love dating - getting out and meeting people is interesting, but then I guess I'm a people person. It doesn't have to be women per say - I like going out with people from work, from my rugby club or just chatting to randoms you meet whilst you're out.

It sounds a little like you find the whole thing a bit hard because you're self concious. Meeting people should be a relaxed and enjoyable thing.

Meeting a girl and having a drink should be something you enjoy - it shouldn't stress you out. Even if you decide she's not worth a pop, at least you've got a funny story.

Otherwise...what do you talk about with your mates when you meet up?
'What have you been up to this week?'. 'Nothing'. 'Oh...'.

Grab life by the balls, or sit back and wait for it to kick you in them.
hmm i really like this.
 
Top