"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Am I the only one that doesn't give a **** about "The Game"?

SamePendo

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Well, am I?

No offense to other posters. But I just don't give a damn about it. It's been done before. The famous book on men for women. The world didn't change.

I keep looking at posts about it.

Personally, my "style" is to emulate, the best person I can possibly be. The ****yness, funynness (?), coolness. it all just comes with it. With a little push of knowing what I'm doing.

I suppose to all those that are fixed up with canned lines and **** it apparently does hurt.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by SamePendo
Well, am I?

No offense to other posters. But I just don't give a damn about it. It's been done before. The famous book on men for women. The world didn't change.

I keep looking at posts about it.

Personally, my "style" is to emulate, the best person I can possibly be. The ****yness, funynness (?), coolness. it all just comes with it. With a little push of knowing what I'm doing.

I suppose to all those that are fixed up with canned lines and **** it apparently does hurt.
way I look at it. It hurts PUA's more then DJ's because DJ's aren't smooth maneuveurs and tricks but it is a mindset of principles to live your life with. It's pathetic that people are saying that it hurts their game. Sad.

comic_relief
 

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oh man!!!not another david deangelo student
 

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its more about learning something new that may help you even more. some people may not be at the level to just say, fvcka book, audio tape, dvd, etc. people just being themselves probably prevented them from not getting women in the first place, so they develop this stuff until it becomes natural. hell, some people probably didn't even know who they were until they started this stuff. some people may already be funny, but still dont know how to get women, or some maybe cool and still dont know how.
 

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Originally posted by SamePendo
Well, am I?

No offense to other posters. But I just don't give a damn about it. It's been done before. The famous book on men for women. The world didn't change.

I keep looking at posts about it.

Personally, my "style" is to emulate, the best person I can possibly be. The ****yness, funynness (?), coolness. it all just comes with it. With a little push of knowing what I'm doing.

I suppose to all those that are fixed up with canned lines and **** it apparently does hurt.
Spot on man :up:
It is a good read and interesting but that is as much as I thought about it, actually what is funny is the book only came out here a couple of weeks ago, the first review I read bagged it out so much that I dont think anyone who is not interested in this area of their lives will even look at it. As I have said before anyone who thinks that book will affect their game has bigger issues in their life then meeting women.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Agree.

It's kinda like saying that the entire WORLD is messed up because of the existence of MTV.
 

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Originally posted by Gonzalo
Agree.

It's kinda like saying that the entire WORLD is messed up because of the existence of MTV.
Yeah, it's just the US that's messed up.
 

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"the game" is just a set of training wheels.

In time you out grow it and then you move on the being your own man.

In the end you don't end up playing games. You take what you want from life by the strength of your will.
 
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