Am I the only guy who wants more from the game than just success with women?

[Listen_to_Olly]

Bumble and Tinder have made it relatively easy for a guy with his $hit together to smack tons of women and get laid a lot but I feel like within me is this urge to want more from the game than that. I guess it stems from my college days of being in a fraternity and having a group of bros to organize parties with and smack hot girls with.

A part of me wonders if something like that is out there in the adult world or if its really a man for himself.

Even when I think about this objectively, sex is sex and that's it, it feels good and that's that. But I want more from the game than just the sex, I want a community, a brotherhood of male friends to take part in this stuff with, a group of women to have around for fun, and just that sort of feeling that comes over you when you have thrown a nice party with some guys and hot girls come and you hook up at the end of the night.

It's like I take success with women for granted but somehow feel that need to want more from the game.

Then at the same time I am fighting against society when I do this because a lot of people settle down after 25 or so, slow down with life, and start thinking about kids instead of having fun.

 

[btownbuck2012]

Bumble and Tinder have made it relatively easy for a guy with his $hit together to smack tons of women and get laid a lot but I feel like within me is this urge to want more from the game than that. I guess it stems from my college days of being in a fraternity and having a group of bros to organize parties with and smack hot girls with.

A part of me wonders if something like that is out there in the adult world or if its really a man for himself.

Even when I think about this objectively, sex is sex and that's it, it feels good and that's that. But I want more from the game than just the sex, I want a community, a brotherhood of male friends to take part in this stuff with, a group of women to have around for fun, and just that sort of feeling that comes over you when you have thrown a nice party with some guys and hot girls come and you hook up at the end of the night.

It's like I take success with women for granted but somehow feel that need to want more from the game.

Then at the same time I am fighting against society when I do this because a lot of people settle down after 25 or so, slow down with life, and start thinking about kids instead of having fun.

That's natural. It's a natural thing to want to be a part of a community and have a solid group of friends and family. In my opinion, it is one of life's greatest joys. There's nothing wrong with wanting that. I think the greatest info you can snag off of this forum is how to screen the right types of people to build that life with - because the fact of the matter is that while a solid community and family is a wonderful thing, with the wrong people it can become a nightmare and literally ruin your life. It's a fine line, definitely. But there's nothing wrong with wanting that. As men we've got to go out there and build our communities and become leaders in our communities but you've gotta have patience and make sure you're picking the right group of people to associate with, both men and women, and in NYC that can be quite tricky.

 

[Initiatedindenial]

Nop, I think it gives a really good blue print to handle women in general and don't lose self respect in the process.

Women are a dangerous kind, if you let them they will take everything from you, and then loose respect for you and ditch you

 

[Infern0]

I think there is more to "game" than success with women. At least ive gotten more out of it since i started on this site and looking into it.

I mean it was my original reason for getting into game, to get girls.

But what i found was success with women was really a by product of sorting out my own life, finding a purpose, getting on track, understanding myself etc.

Self improvement is a goal that will never stop giving you something to work for, stagnation on it means ypu stagnate in life.

Women as i say are just a by product, it should never ne the main focus and youll never be truly happy if it is.

 

[Listen_to_Olly]

Outside of @btownbuck2012 to a degree, I think most of you misunderstood the point of my entire post. I want the hot girls but I also want the parties, friends, and a big social circle.